The Wedding Playbook Volume 4 | Page 137

Who organises? Usually the bridesmaids – they plan the details of the day with the help of your mum, including invitations, location, food, drinks, decorations, games and prizes. a fresh idea Ask your guests to write down a unique fact about themselves and put it in a bowl. “I can ride a unicycle, I dated a member of a famous band...” Then pull them out one at a time and ask people to guess who it applies to. Correct guesses can receive a prize, or at least plenty of laughs! What to do? This is one you can brainstorm with your girls or leave up to them - are you a tea and scones or champagne and canapés girl? Whatever you plan, keep the setting relaxed and comfortable, so it's easy to mingle as a group. Who's invited? Your nearest and dearest of all ages are welcome - feel free to give the hosts an idea of who you would like to celebrate with. The rest of the details can always be kept a surprise! When & how long? From six months to one week before the wedding. With everyone’s busy schedules, find a time when most are available – especially immediate family and close friends. Length of event? Usually two to three hours is a good timeframe. What about gifts? From practical, to fun and personal, gifts are usually inexpensive. Let guests know of any registry details or if you’re happy simply with the pleasure of their company!