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Not all stress is bad. In fact, stress can baum, a professor at the University of help guard us in dangerous situation, i.e., Waterloo, “Stress inoculation training is fight or flight response. In this case, stress based on the notion that exposing cli- creates additional alertness and energy ents to milder forms of stress can bolster in a way of protecting us. But for this dis- both coping mechanisms and the indi- cussion, we are talking about the stress vidual’s confidence in using his or her that is adverse to our well-being—the coping repertoire.” Military, law enforce- stress that takes its toll on us emotionally ment, firefighters, and elite athletes have and physically and that causes the phys- known this for years. We work better un- iological responses as described above. der stress and pressure; creating dead- Even worse, there is the acute stress that lines and goals are a way of subjecting can shorten our life span. The statistic ourselves to controlled and manageable above that says 94% of adults believe stress levels. When we accomplish those that stress can contribute to the devel- tasks and goals under pressure, it creates opment of major illnesses or disease is an increased belief in our own ability to absolutely accurate. Science has proven accomplish tasks and reach goals. That, that over many studies. in turn, becomes self-fulfilling. Working under pressure is vital to learning how to How do we effectively manage stress? better manage stress. Fighters become Here are five effective ways: better fighters when they spar in a ring with another competitor under fight-like Diet and Exercise. Take care of yourself. conditions. Stress hormones have been linked to overeating and the storage of excess Positive Internal Dialogue. Change your body fat, leading to obesity. Exercise internal chatter. Psychologists tell us not only creates a healthy lifestyle, but it that we talk to ourselves all the time, also combats stress on a hormonal level. non-stop—300 to 1,000 words per min- Good hormones released through exer- ute. Furthermore, 70% of that internal cise can help combat the negative effect chatter tends to be negative. That means of stressor hormones. Healthy eating we have a constant running dialog with also reduces the onset of diseases such ourselves with a negative message. If we as type II diabetes and cardiovascular are constantly telling ourselves that we disease, as well as regulating hormones are stressed out and are overwhelmed, throughout the day. Stabilizing hor- we certainly will be. Stop telling yourself mones can have an overall effect on your how hard life is and how rough you have mood and ability to cope with the physi- it—you will only believe what you say. ological responses to stress. Change that internal dialogue to positive messages. Fight against the negativity Stress Inoculation. Subject yourself to in your head to become a more positive stress. According to Donald Meichen- person. robrmorris.com