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COMMUNITY tvc.dsj.org | November 21, 2017 5 Giving Thanks at Thanksgiving By Kathy Fanger Parish Outreach Coordinator Let all your works give you thanks, O Lord, and let your faithful ones bless you. (Ps. 145:10 In a few days, we will celebrate Thanksgiving…often a time when our family and friends, young and old, gather around a table, are nourished by a delicious meal and share stories of our lives. The day off ers us the opportunity to extend a sincere welcome to one an- other, to connect heart to heart, to put aside past hurts, and to experience the love, joy and peace that God desires for all of us. Thanksgiving is also a day to remem- ber our beloved relatives and friends who have died and are now in heaven. We may be feeling deep sadness in miss- ing their physical presence, yet we hold onto Jesus’ promise that he is preparing a place for us, too, and that we will be reunited with them one day. So on Thanksgiving, we give thanks to God – our God who knows each of us personally, who blesses us every day, who walks with us through the joys and sorrows of our lives, and who will never leave us. Next week, we begin the season of Advent – a season of hope. “God so loved the world that He gave His only Son.” (John 3:16). “They shall call him Emmanuel, a name that means ‘God is with us.’” (Isaiah 7:14, Mt. 1:23) The season of Advent also holds many opportunities for us. Will we be alert for how God “Emmanuel” breaks into our days? Advent calls us to reach out to oth- ers, accompanying each other in our struggles, helping one another in what- ever ways we can, bearing one another’s burdens, healing the broken-hearted. Perhaps it means a telephone call, a pleasant visit, or sending an uplifting card to someone who is sick or lonely. Do you know someone who is grieving, or recently separated or divorced? They often feel forgotten. Consider inviting them to a meal in your home or at a restaurant – a time where their spirits may be lifted. You may consider volunteering at a shelter or food kitchen, or bringing toys, gifts, clothes or monetary donations that will help make Christmas a happier time for those less fortunate. Advent opportu- nities abound in bringing Christ’s light to others, one person at a time. We just need to act upon them. Invite a friend or family members to join you. It is in giv- ing that we receive, where we will fi nd true joy. Why not repay the Lord for all the Lord has given you? Do it as an expression of thanks, to honor a loved one who has died. Reach out. Your love and kindness will bring Christ’s light and peace to them and to you. National Wreaths Across America Day Gate of Heaven Cemetery Veterans Plaza Dec. 16 at 10 a.m., followed by reception Help place a wreath at every Veter- ans grave. Join us in saluting America’s Heroes. For more information, contact (650) 428-3730 or [email protected]. Rest in Peace, Brother Robert Carberry, CSC Resident of Notre Dame, Ind., Broth- er Robert Carberry, CSC, passed away on October 17. A religious Brother of the Congregation of Holy Cross, he was well known and loved in the Bay Area because of his many years of service and his trademark question, “What do you need?” Beginning in 1959, Brother Robert served at Saint Francis High School, Mountain View, as a teacher, bookstore manager, and business and facilities manager. In 1991, he began working closely with Monsignor James Walsh at Saint Cyprian Church, Sunnyvale, and then at Saint Christopher Church, San Jose. Among the many gifts Brother Rob- ert shared was his far-sighted planning, not just fi ve years ahead, but 20-30 years into the future. He was very practical and active, locating and redistributing resources (food, offi ce supplies, furni- ture) to help people and schools, and Are you connected with the Diocese of San Jose? Visit us online Like us on Facebook www.dsj.org Diocese of San Jose Follow us on Twitter @DioceseSanJose Follow us on Instagram @DioceseSanJose Robert Diaz, MBA Financial Advisor • Personal & Business Financial Planning • Investment Planning • Retirement Planning • Insurance Decisions • Saving for College Education 1999 South Bascom Avenue Suite 400 Campbell, CA 95008 CA Insurance Lic # 0L29352 office 408-369-9400 ext. 126 direct 408-963-2864 [email protected] Securities and Investment Advisory Services offered through Waddell & Reed, Inc., a Broker/Dealer, Member FINRA/SIPC and a Federally Registered Investment Advisor. Insurance products are offered through insurance companies with which Waddell & Reed has sales arrangements. AD-MS-BC-6BULLT/30997 (03/16 ) Brother Robert Carberry, CSC inspiring an army of volunteers. In 2011, Brother Robert moved to an assisted living facility of the Brothers of Holy Cross in Austin, Texas. In 2012, he moved to Notre Dame, Ind. to receive additional care. In declining health these past several years due to cancer, he passed away suddenly at age 88. Memorial contributions, in honor of Brother Robert Carberry, C.S.C., to support the mission and ministries of the Brothers of Holy Cross may be sent to: Congregation of Holy Cross, Moreau Province, Office of Devel- opment, 1101 Saint Edwards Drive, Austin, TX, 78704.