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tvc.dsj.org | May 7, 2019 OBITUARIES 21 Rest in Peace Lorna Christine Mondora Panelli L o r n a Pa n e l l i passed away peace- f ully at home on Palm Sunday after a two-year coura- geous battle with colon cancer. Lorna, a San Jose native, was born on July 3, 1934, at the old O’Connor Hospital – the only child of Joe and Elisa Mondora, immigrant parents from the Lombardy region of Italy. Lorna’s father Joe owned and oper- ated the Fior d’Italia restaurant on Market and San Augustine Streets, near the old Courthouse for 42 years. Joe was famous for his ravioli, which were enjoyed by many jurors under the watchful eye of the Court bailiff. Lorna’s mother Elisa also enjoyed success as the owner of Elisa’s Fashions in Yardage, creating the largest fabric business in the Bay Area. It was this same spirit of hard work and the inspi- ration of her parents that Lorna exhib- ited throughout her life. She attended Trace Elementary, Herbert Hoover Jr. High and Lincoln High School. She went on to San Jose State University where she obtained her B.A. in food and nutrition. Following graduation, she completed an internship at Mas- sachusetts General Hospital in Boston where she received her R.D. (Registered Dietician). She began her career at Santa Clara County Hospital (now VMC) in 1956. She later went on to earn her teaching credential in nutrition and food service from UC Santa Cruz. In April of 1955, Lorna met Ed Pan- elli (then known as Eddie) at a mutual friend’s wedding. On the way home from the wedding, Lorna advised her mother that she was going to marry the young man she’d just met – and she did. On October 27, 1956, Ed and Lorna were married at Saint Leo’s Catholic Church and began a long and loving marriage and an incredible partnership. From the time Ed was a practicing lawyer, to his twenty-two years on the Bench, culminating with his service as a Justice of the Califor- nia State Supreme Court, they shared adventures and had an enduring col- laboration for 62 ½ years. In marrying a Santa Clara University boy she joked, “there was no more time for Spartans – only for Broncos.” For those privileged enough to know Lorna, she delighted those around her with her keen sense of humor, quick wit, wonderful story- telling ability and “turn of phrase.” We wished she had written her own obituary – as we knew it would have been funny! She was stylish, elegant and created beauty in everything she touched. She embodied grace in everything she did. She was a wonderful and loyal friend, cherishing her close relationships. She was an amazing cook and a meal at the Panelli’s was always a special occasion. Lorna liked to have fun. She loved her three boys, Tom, Jeff and Michael, and was always their strongest sup- porter. They in turn were there for her during her difficult days, even to the time of her death. She was “Nonni” to her grandchil- dren Joey, Elisa, Clara and Makiko. Lorna loved to have them “sleep over” followed by a waffle breakfaSaint She enjoyed life to its fullest with her fam- ily – always up for travel and laughter. She always had a knowing twinkle in her eye. Lorna is survived by her loving husband Ed and her three sons and their families: Tom (Lani), Jeff, Michael (Cindy) and devoted grandchildren Joey, Elisa, Clara and Makiko. Nieces and nephews include, Natalee and Pa- tricia Ernstrom (Marshall Anstandig), Alex and Patrick Panelli (Erica). The family is grateful to the nurses at Hospice of the Valley as well as the Honors Care Givers for their kindness and care. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Santa Clara University – Panelli Scholarship. Brother Robert Hoppe, S.M. The Marian- ist Province of the Un it e d St at e s of Amer ica recom - mends to our fra- ternal prayers our dear brother, Rob- ert Hoppe, of the Marianist Community of Cupertino, who died in the service of the Blessed Virgin Mary on April 11 in Cupertino at the age of 78 with 58 years of reli- gious profession. Brother Robert “Bob” began his ministry as a teacher but soon dis- covered that his talents and practical personality would be more beneficial to the Marianists on the business side of ministry. He went on to serve in administration for many Marianist ministries, as a treasurer of several Marianist communities and as Pro- vincial Assistant for Temporalities. His business mind was a gift for many Marianist ministries. His prac- tical mind and his deep Marianist spirituality also made him a wonder- ful homilist and a daily example of the Marianist Charism. Robert G. Hoppe was born in San Francisco, California, on June 7, 1940. He was one of two children (1 sister) in the family of Gerhard and Myrtle (nee Hoffman) Hoppe. He graduated from Saint Cecelia’s grammar school in San Francisco in 1954. He was first introduced to the Marianists when he attended Archbishop Riordan High School in San Francisco. At the age of 17, he transferred Chaminade College Preparatory in Los Angeles, where he entered the Marianist postulate. In August of 1959, he entered Mari- anist novitiate in Santa Cruz, CA, and professed first vows on August 15, 1960. He continued his college studies in Honolulu while attending Chaminade University. After earn- ing his bachelor’s degree in history in 1964, he was assigned to teach at his alma mater, Archbishop Riordan High School, in San Francisco. It was around this time that he discovered his interest in business and was as- signed to Junipero Serra High School in Gardena, CA, as business manager (1966-1970). He professed perpetual vows in August of 1968. In 1973, he was assigned to serve as comptroller at Saint Louis School in Honolulu (1973-1975.) Having honed his financial skills, the Pacific Prov- ince assigned him to serve as their Assistant Provincial of Temporalities (1975-1990) and then as their chief financial officer (1990-2002). In 2002, Brother Bob was assigned to serve as the Vice President of the Marian- ist Center of Hawaii. In addition to his dedicated stewardship of the Marianist Center, Brother Bob was a member of the board of regents for Chaminade University of Honolulu and he served on the board of trustees for Saint Louis School in Honolulu. Brother Bob retired to the Cupertino Marianist Community in Cupertino, CA, in 2018. Father Patrick McDaid remembers, “Brother Hoppe was dedicated to the welfare of the students and faculty of Saint Louis School and Chaminade University. He was a conscientious steward of the infrastructure of the Kalaepohaku property of the Mari- anist Center of Hawaii. Brother Bob had an amazing personality and was a beloved Brother to live with in com- munity.” Brother Dennis Schmitz writes, “Brother Hoppe and I worked to- gether for many years at the Marian- ist Center of Hawaii where he served as my “boss.” His responsibilities tended to be directed toward the infrastructure of the Chaminade University/Saint Louis School cam- pus whereas my role was more with spiritual outreach to the broader church and community. He was a tremendous support for me and he allowed me to ‘to spread my wings.’ “ Brother John Campbell remembers, “Brother Bob was a very good friend. I was blessed to be with him while I was on retreat in Cupertino. I recall his homilies. They were prepared well and they were very practical. He had a very good spiritual outlook, also very practical. I will miss him. I thank God I was able to tell him that I love him as a Brother and friend. His practical mind was very evident at his work in the responsibilities of the Marianist Center of Hawaii. Espe- cially, the never-ending care for the infrastructure on the entire campus. When he left for Cupertino he told me that he had completed all that he had planned.” We thank God for his life, his knowledge and his dedicated service to the Society of Mary as he joins his Heavenly Father in everlasting peace.