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The Valley Catholic in the church May 27, 2014 13 Priesthood is not a business, monarchy, orphanage, pope tells students By Carol Glatz VATICAN CITY (CNS) -- Pope Francis told seminarians not to become “orphan priests,” who are motherless without Mary; “businessman priests,” who are after money; or “prince priests,” who are aloof from the people. He also warned them not to give “boring homilies,” saying their reflections should be brief, powerful and address the problems and concerns people are really going through. In a private audience in the Vatican’s Paul VI hall with thousands of seminarians and priests from around the world who are studying in Rome, the pope spent 70 minutes answering the questions of eight pre-selected participants. In his off-the-cuff replies, the pope peppered his serious and detailed advice with humorous anecdotes and sarcasm, such as when he warned the men to never forget they have a mother in Mary. ‘Community life isn’t paradise; at any rate, it’s purgatory.’ “But if you don’t want Our Lady as a mother, you will have her as a motherin-law and that’s not good,” he said to laughter and applause. The comment was part of a lengthy response to a Mexican student’s question about remaining faithful to one’s priestly vocation. The only way to calm the waters and be able to reflect intelligently on what’s going on is to turn to Mary for help, he said, and to “seek refuge under the mantle of the Holy Mother of God.” “To forget a mother is a terrible thing,” he said, and when a priest forgets Mary or does not have a good relationship with her, “something is missing. He is an orphan priest.” The pope later warned against becoming a “businessman priest” or a “prince priest.” Parishioners are usually very forgiving of a priest’s missteps, except when they are sins of greed and vanity -- the “two hazards” that St. Augustine warned about that come with the priestly office. The people of God “don’t forgive you if you are a pastor who is attached to money, if you’re vain and don’t treat people nicely because the conceited don’t treat people nicely.” “There is only one path to leadership: service. There is no other way,” the pope said. A priest can be a great communicator and have other wonderful talents, “but if you aren’t a servant, your leadership will collapse.” Service is always being available to others, responding to their needs, and helping them “grow and walk” with Jesus. One of the reasons why there are so many “boring homilies” is because priests aren’t “close” to their people, he said. The measure for seeing how ‘It’s not true that gossip is “a female thing; men, too...’ close a priest is to his parishioners is his homily, he added. Pope Francis lamented long homilies. Homilies should not be “about abstract things,” he said. While it expresses “the truth of faith,” a homily shouldn’t be a classroom lesson, a conference or an academic reflection, but something that borders on the sacramental, and is “brief and powerful.” The pope urged seminarians to not let their academic studies take over their spiritual growth, apostolic work and community life. “Academic purism is not healthy,” he said, and it carries the risk of “slipping into ideologies,” which harms the priest and people’s conception of the Church. In response to the challenges of living in a Religious community, diocese or seminary, the pope said “gossip is the plague” and will destroy a community. He said, it’s not true that gossip is “a female thing; men, too,” can get wrapped up in backstabbing, jealousy, envy and power struggles. “Community life isn’t paradise; at any rate, it’s purgatory,” he said to applause. When asked about balancing all of the demands of being a priest or bishop, the pope said the secret is prayer and always making room for the sacraments and Eucharistic adoration. The ideal day is to go to bed tired “so you won’t have to take any (sleeping) pills,” he joked. He underlined the difference between the “good tired” of a productive day versus the exhaustion of being run ragged. He told his audience that he could see his papal assistant “giving me a look right now,” suggesting that the pope does not exactly follow his own advice in that regard. “It’s true. I’m a sinner,” guilty of overwork and being disorganized, he laughed. Pope Francis uses incense to bless new priests before their ordination Mass in St. Peter’