The Valley Catholic December 10, 2013 | Page 9

The Valley Catholic Spirituality/Family Life Fr. Brendan McGuire is pastor of Holy Spirit Parish in San Jose and a Vicar General of the Diocese of San Jose. As Vicar General, he is responsible for special projects such as the recently launched Saint Katharine Drexel Initiative to revitalize Catholic Schools in the Diocese. Before being ordained in 2000, Fr. Brendan was an executive in a technology company and still loves to use technology such as Facebook, podcasts and YouTube to bring people to a deeper relationship with Christ. Email him at [email protected]. Sunday, December 22 Fourth Week of Advent BEGIN Spend a minute or two in silence. Set aside whatever might hinder your prayer. PRAY The virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and they shall name him Emmanuel. –Matthew 1:23 LISTEN Read Matthew 1:18–24 The angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home.” When Joseph awoke, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took his wife into his home. —Matthew 1:20, 24 Staying By Those in Need Rick Reinhardt was not a particularly nice guy. He hung around the wrong people and was regularly in trouble with the law. One day a few years ago he was arrested on suspicion of murder. Because of his criminal background it was not difficult to convict Rick of first degree murder despite onlycircumstantial evidence. Everybody who knew him disowned him—except for his sister. She was able to convince a public defender that Rick was innocent. After further investigation by police, it was discovered that Rick was indeed framed by his best friend. It was a sordid story about murder and betrayal. After a speedy second trial, Rick was acquitted of all charges and set free. The only person who gave Rick hope in an otherwise hopeless situation was his sister. In today’s Gospel we hear how Joseph was planning to quietly divorce Mary. She was pregnant before the marriage and justice in that time in history would have dictated banishment or being stoned to death. But Joseph chose to listen to God through a dream! It would have been easier to walk away and not get any further involved since after all he was not the problem. It would have been easier to pretend that the dream was “just a dream” and to leave. But Joseph chose to stand by Mary during this time of great vulnerability. Instead of turning his back, he chose to listen to God. Maybe there are people we know who have made mistakes and need someone to stand by them through tough times. May Joseph’s courage give us the strength we need to reach out and lend a hand to someone who is hurting or in trouble. ACT Make a single commitment toward spiritual growth for today. I will reflect on the year that is ending and the times I failed to help someone in need. I will ask God’s forgiveness for those failures and determine to right my wrongs. PRAY All-loving and forgiving God, open my heart to your tender mercy and grant me healing forgiveness for all of my sins. Allow me the grace to stand with others who have been hurt or who have hurt others. Work through me to bring them peace. Amen. December 10, 2013 9 The following homilies are excerpts from Father McGuire’s latest book, “The Living Gospel: Daily Devotions for Advent,” from Ave Maria Press. It can be purchased on Amazon in paper copy or Kindle version. Sunday, December 15 Third Week of Advent Begin Spend a minute or two in silence. Set aside whatever might hinder your prayer. Pray The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he is anointed me to bring glad tidings to the poor. –Isaiah 61:1 (cited in Luke 4:18) Listen Read Matthew 11:2–11 John the Baptist sent his disciples to Jesus with this question, “Are you the one who was to come, or should we look for another?” Jesus said to them in reply, “Go and tell John what you hear and see: the blind regain their sight, the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised, and the poor have the good news proclaimed to them. -- Matthew 11:2–5 Words and Actions That Match On this Gaudete Sunday, this day of great rejoicing, let’s consider our words like seeds we plant. 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