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14 April 29, 2014 Marriage/Art & Life Marriage Minute Keeping Holy the Lord’s Day By Paul & Stephanie Francois Worldwide Marriage Encounter As we reflect on Lent just past, we are reminded that through prayer, fasting, and alms-giving, we are called into deeper relationship with Jesus. Ideally, we’d like to maintain this focus all year. How can we do that? The Third Commandment offers us a start: (Exodus 20: 8) Remember the Sabbath day—keep it holy. Six days you may labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath of the LORD your God. In our lives and in our relationship, we are trying to keep holy the Lord’s Day. For us, that centers around Sunday Mass. We make attending Sunday Mass an absolute priority. It’s not a matter of IF we’re going to go, it’s a matter of WHEN. Whether we have plans to visit family or friends, we go to Mass. Whether it’s convenient or not, we go to Mass. We make the Lord a priority in a tangible way, to give thanks to Him, and to surround ourselves with a community of believers to support us. We also try to make Sundays a “family day.” When our kids were at home and attending college locally, this meant attending Mass together as a family and then going out to lunch. We try not to do any work on Sundays -- not from our jobs, our ministry work, or chores. We try to be extra attentive to our own relationship on Sundays. Here are some more ideas that we are either considering or have heard others talk about: • Turning off the computer on Sundays and not turning it on for any reason. • Turning off our cell phones and taking a break from being ultra connected to the world. • Reaching out to extended family and touching base with those whom we do not often see or speak to. • Planning a family picnic or game. • Turning off the TV or only watching programs with a spiritual influence. • Not patronizing ANY business, including restaurants, so as not to cause others to be able to keep holy the Lord’s Day by having to work. Visit www.sanjosewwme.org for more information on creating a joy-filled marriage. www.valleycatholiconline.com T he Valley Catholic Movie review: ‘Heaven is for real’ By John Mulderig NEW YORK (CNS) -- “Out of the mouth of babes and sucklings hast thou ordained strength.” Those familiar words, addressed to God in Psalm 8 of the King James Bible, might serve as the tagline for the fact-based drama “Heaven Is for Real” (TriStar). Audiences of almost any age will benefit from this intriguing, child-guided glimpse into the afterlife. As readers of Todd Burpo’s bestselling book (written with Lynn Vincent) will know, this is the story of his young son, Colton. After coming close to death during an operation, the 4-yearold (Connor Corum) startled his Wesleyan minister father (Greg Kinnear) and choir-director mother, Sonja (Kelly Reilly), by announcing that he had visited he ]