The Trusty Servant Nov 2018 No. 126 | Page 4

N o .126 T he T rusty S ervant Tony Ruth (Co Ro, 51-90) In 1957, his future wife, Beverly, arrived at Winchester as catering manager. Tony and Beverly made a devoted couple and were soon to adopt the three children, Jo, James and Amanda, who made up their close and lively family unit. Nothing illustrates their extraordinary parental attributes better than the exchange year Tony and Beverly spent at St Mark’s College, Massachusetts, in 1966-67. With three children under six, they settled them into new schools and during the holidays drove 35,000 miles across the length and breadth of America towing a tent trailer. Tommy Cookson (I, 55-60; Co Ro, 64-65, 67-72, 74-90; Headmaster, 03-05) writes: Tony Ruth, who died on 1 st May 2018, just after his 90th birthday, was for 39 years a distinguished teacher of Physics and Housemaster of Hopper’s from 1968-83. An enthusiastic oarsman at Cambridge, he coached rowing for much of his career and having done two years’ national service in the army was regularly in attendance on field days and summer camps. He ran Astro Soc for many years and was a great friend of Patrick Moore, presenter of BBC TV’s The Sky at Night. Tony’s son, James, recalls coming into the drawing room to find them sprawled on the carpet discussing the celestial charts spread out before them. Tony Ruth was born in Wimbledon in 1928, the younger of two brothers. His elder brother, Den, a career pilot in the RAF, was ten years his senior and in August 1942 Tony spent two weeks close to Den’s airfield being smuggled onto training flights in Lancasters. Den’s death on patrol in the Bay of Biscay two years later caused Tony lasting grief and on the eventual release of the relevant documents he spent long hours determining how and where Den had been lost. Already a pupil at King’s College School, Wimbledon, he won a scholarship in 1946 to read Natural Science at St John’s College, Cambridge, where he gained a First in Part 1. His enthusiasm and precise way of thinking made him a natural schoolmaster and after two years’ national service he joined the staff at Winchester. As a very young don he was fated to be nicknamed after his famous baseball namesake, Babe Ruth. He suffered this with quiet fortitude and a sense of humour which, despite his precise and formal demeanour, was never far from the surface. It was a good moment to start his career: soon afterwards, Winchester began to play an important part in the modernisation of the secondary- school curriculum, particularly in the development of Nuffield A Level science courses, with Physical Science introduced alongside Physics and Chemistry A Levels. Tony embraced the new Physics course with enthusiasm but he did not volunteer to teach the new Physical Science A Level. This was an ambitious course which required the same don to teach both Physics and Chemistry up to A Level and to explore the connections between them. Perfectionist as he was, he would have worried that his Chemistry wasn’t up to it. Tony as family man is the key to his success as housemaster of Hopper’s, a post he took up soon after his return from America. As a scientist he was of course tidy and orderly - his successor in Hopper’s found an impeccable filing cabinet and an enormous bunch of keys, each labelled clearly as ‘Back Door’, ‘Drawing Room Windows’ etc and, mysteriously, ‘Nether Regions’. But his qualities as a man were obvious. Letters to the family after his death speak of his humanity, decency and dignity. One old Hopperite declared, ‘He had greater confidence in me than I had in myself.’ Another wrote, ‘I was neither the most academic nor the most sporty but I always felt he cared about me.’ A boy queuing up to take a pound out of house bank would find himself serenaded with Shirley Bassey’s ‘Big Spender’; and in bequeathing the house to a new housedon he whispered, ‘If you want to check everyone is in on a Saturday night, set off the fire alarm and have a roll call.’ If Tony did not live as dangerously as some, he made his way into the esteem of his colleagues by his mastery of his subject, his reliability, his determination to play a full part in school life - and above all by his kindness and appreciation of others. Letters, written in his small, neat hand, followed after any event, happy or sad, which occurred to his friends, former colleagues or pupils long after his retirement. People mattered to him. Asking after a lost wallet at an American supermarket car park, he was required 4