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N o .125 of RWLM (Coll, 65-70). Cap Prae, Latin Speech, Divinity Prize. Exhibitioner and Hon Scholar Hertford College, Oxford, Classics Mods, BA 1942. Commissioned, Middlesex Regiment, with whom he landed in Normandy on D+1 and in NW Europe. He was responsible for billeting allied soldiers and found a large farm near Venlo, where he met his first wife. He later served in Palestine and Egypt. Demobbed as a Major 1947. He wrote the History of 2 nd Bn The Middlesex Regiment. He returned to Hertford, 1 Lit Hum MA 1948. He first worked in HM Treasury 1948-59 and then for the UKAEA 1959-80. Publications: 1967 Three Mozart Operas. He became an Anglican Reader and was active in the ministry until deafness overcame him. He then moved to be with his son in Durham. In retirement he developed an interest in questions of dating - how calendrical systems work - and he wrote some articles on dating New Testament documents. Married (1) 1945 Elly Gitmans (died 1980) and (2) 1984 Molly Shapland (died 2010). He is survived by his son and a daughter from his first marriage. Chetwynd John (Jock) Drake Haswell (K, 32-37): died 21.1.2018 as our 2 nd Sen Man. Head of House, VI and VIII. Royal Military College 1938. Commissioned the Queen’s Regiment, joining the 2 nd Battalion at Razmak, Waziristan on the North West Frontier in 1939. In 1942 he was seconded to the King’s African Rifles. On arrival at Mombasa he was told that the troopship had been reported sunk; everyone on board had been reported dead and it was inconvenient that they had come alive again! He served with the KAR in Somaliland, where he led a successful operation against the Vichy French, leading two Generals into captivity. He later served in Mountbatten’s Headquarters in Kandy, Ceylon. Thereafter he served in Berlin during the Berlin Blockade. He retired as Major in 1959. After 8 years in Industry he finally became a Retired Officer at Intelligence Corps Headquarters at Ashford, where he wrote the NATO T he T rusty S ervant Manuals on Intelligence and Deception. Publications included (first under the pen name of George Foster) Indian File 1960 and (then under his own name) The first Respectable Spy 1969 and The Intelligence and Deception of the D-Day Landing, 1979. His beautiful hand-crafted models were features in the lives of his 8 grandchildren and 7 great-grandchildren. Married 1947 Charlotte Petter who died after 67 years marriage. He is survived by their two sons and a daughter. Obituary in The Daily Telegraph. David Vere Bendall (D, 33-38): died 27.12.2017 aged 97 as our 5 th Sen Man. Exhibitioner, Co Prae, French, German and Spanish Prizes, VI and Soccer XI. Scholarship, King’s College, Cambridge, 2 Modern Languages 1939. Commissioned, Grenadier Guards 1940, with whom he served in North Africa and Italy. He was appointed GSO 2 (Ops) HQ 5 Corps, where he was responsible for planning the final campaign in Italy. Twice Mentioned in Despatches he was appointed MBE 1945. Demobbed as Major 1946. He joined the Diplomatic Service, with whom he served in Rome, Santiago, Paris (with NATO International Staff), Washington and London. He was appointed CMG 1967. Having been tipped to be Ambassador in Moscow, he retired from the FCO in 1971 for the sake of his wife’s health. He joined Morgan Grenfell Group 1971-89, where he was at the forefront of the bank’s international efforts: he went on to be chairman of the bank’s overseas operations in France, Switzerland and Italy. A love of Italy led him to become a Director, Banca Nazionale del Lavoro 1986-92. He was Chairman, British Red Cross Society 1981-86. In Suffolk he was a Patron of All Souls, Ashbocking, quietly supporting the church’s maintenance. He played golf at Aldeburgh and tennis into his 80s. He lived consistently by his own motto: Bien ou Rien - Done Well or Not at All. Married 1941 Merrilees Galpin, who died 2014 after 63 years of marriage. He is survived by their daughter. 26 Charles Eyres Carrington (E, 35-40): died 9.10.2017 aged 95. Head of House. Commissioned into DCLI 1942. He was seconded to the Gold Coast Regiment, with whom he served in India and Burma. During the Arakan Operation he was wounded and Mentioned in Despatches. He was Captain and Adjutant 1946. On demobilisation he joined the Colonial Service, with whom he served in the Gold Coast 1948-56. During this time he became President of the Kumasi Golf Club. Before independence he returned to the United Kingdom and joined the United Kingdom Atomic Energy Authority at Harwell 1959-82. In retirement he was Vice President of the Oxfordshire RBL. Ian West Stoddart (E, 36-41): died 31.8.2017 aged 94. Father of CWS (E, 63-68) and PGPS (E, 66-70). Junior Duncan Prize and Gold Medal for Gymnã. Clare College, Cambridge, Exhibitioner 1943, 2 Nat Sci BA 1944. St Bartholomew’s Hospital MB, BCh 1947. DObst 1951 (but he learnt more from midwives, nurses and mothers during the last year of the war as he bicycled through bomb ruins of East London to deliver babies than from his professors!), National Service, RAMC 1948-50 Captain. After his medical training he joined a general practice in Winchester in 1953, where he remained until his retirement as the senior partner in 1990. During this time he was a School Doctor for Freddie’s. In retirement he bicycled through Orissa in India and Madagascar visiting Leprosy treatment centres. He also bicycled in Greece, aided by his version of Modern Greek. Once passing a funeral procession, the ladies burst out laughing – he had not said ‘My condolences’ but with rare grammatical correctness, ‘My most sincere congratulations!’ He stayed ahead of medical science until his last days, and he always stressed the need to listen carefully to the patient before diagnosis and treatment. He was survived for 4 weeks by Bridget, his wife of 71 years, and their two sons and two daughters.