The Successful Healthy Couple Of Today’s Society
Our way of life has changed dramatically in the last 50 years. Society has become fast and furious, our pace of life moving so quickly that it has become more stressful than ever before.
For our couples of today, it has become increasingly challenging. Sharing time together has become harder since both partners work outside of the home. In many cases, both with professional careers combined with children, this almost makes it impossible to find intimate time together.
For couples to remain strong and keep the “in love feelings” alive, it takes much maturity and understanding of what it takes to keep the fires burning.
Many couples put their relationship last on their list and this is a death sentence for any romantic, loving relationship to be able to thrive and grow.
Couples need to be in balance with each other, this is how our planet functions to near perfection.
We must be to each other best friends and lovers; one does not work without the other.
Our brain has many different chemical hormones it sends out. For instance, when we first meet someone that we are extremely attracted to, and begin the dating process, this is stage one, desire. The hormones released are testosterone and estrogen.
The second stage is attraction. When we are so crazy in lust, we can’t get enough of each other. These hormones are dopamine, serotonin and adrenaline. They do slow down after the newness begins to wear off.
We then enter stage three, where we begin the bonding with hormones, oxytocin and vasopressin. This is when we fall in love.
All these hormones must remain in use throughout the relationship. When we try a new sexual position, get a little wilder than we have in the past, sharing fantasies together, maybe a little role play, this is like breathing fresh air into our intimate playtime. It is new and will escalate the lusty crazy feelings that stage two used to bring.
Couples of today must always remain lovers to feel the closeness of being best friends, feeling the strong trust which must be achieved to maintain a long term committed loving relationship.
Always put the needs of the relationship first, thinking of your partner first, when both partners are successful in doing so, they will have a fulfilling loving partnership for years to come.
By theclassywoman - Ann