The Spotlight issue 1 January / February 2013 | Page 37

The Mature Man In Today’s World

Exploring who the mature man is and what makes him tick. Each one of us can envision our own interpretation of what he looks like with words such as debonair, hair of salt and pepper, distinguished looking, etc. Let’s take a look at him from the inside out now.

The mature man has qualities that stand out when compared to the man still maturing. He shows responsibility in all areas of his life. In normal circumstances, he has the ability to have a good career. He most often makes sure his family is taken care of and is financially secure.

He has no problem making decisions since he weighs out all of his options prior to acting upon them.

He has a cause to give him passion and the desire to go after what he needs, he is driven.

The male species is made up differently physically, metabolically, mentally and emotionally in order to balance with the female species.

A male’s hormone system is made up a little differently than the females‘. He has more testosterone than a woman, which makes him more aggressive to help protect, compete and hunt.

The mature man is great when it comes to competition; this is why most men enjoy some sort of sport. It gives them challenge and competition that the male hormones thrive on.

This is another reason why a man is attracted to a woman who gives him a challenge.

His physical appearance is usually more masculine, He exhibit’s a stronger bone structure, more body hair and often, larger features.

His brain function varies slightly; even the brain patterns look different when compared to the female.

He has one specific area in his brain that is 3 times larger than the woman’s. This area stores his sexual thoughts, which is why he thinks of sex frequently, making this quite normal.

The mature man is more about the visual aspects than the female when it comes to the sensual body or physical looks of a woman. This concept actually goes back to the beginning of time when a man was searching for a woman capable of carrying his children. He was turned on by a woman who was full figured. In his mind, this meant that she would be healthy enough to bare and carry his children to full term. To this day, this is why a large number of men are attracted to the size of a woman’s breasts.

A man who is mature has close intimate relationships with family and friends. His buddies are not just friends to share a sports day with or compete with. They are buddies that he can share thoughts and ideas with on a personal level.

The mature man often expresses with ease his deep emotions. He conveys well what he feels and thinks. He communicates this with others well. Whereas, the immature man tends to pull away. Honesty is his policy. He can trust others and can be trusted also. He would never keep a woman hanging on if he knew she was not the right one.

He has much respect for himself as well as others who surround him. He appreciates and respects life.

He will support his partner and will be there for them. His goal is to make the partner happy. He will always be supportive of that and meet all needs.

The mature man not only falls in love, he will express his love in his love making. Becoming fulfilled is his goal for the partner first before himself. He wants to know all the fantasies. Every aspect that makes his partner desire him and feel passion for him. He is extremely patient. He will take his time making his partner feel incredible.

When you have a mature man you will never want another man. He will always do his best to protect, care for and meet all needs possible. He will do only his best to make all of his partner’s dreams come true.