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others. I had no specific goals for book sales. I just had faith that it would get into the hands of parents who really needed to read it. Any time I get a personal message from another parent telling me what an encouragement my writing was for them, that’s the greatest, for sure. the help of an experienced blogger friend, I ramped it up a few years ago into what has become today. I started writing our family’s story more than eight years ago as a novel. It never felt right and, quite frankly, it was horrible. Five years ago, I chucked it in a drawer, started with a blank screen, and began writing my memoir about our experiences with Brielle. Part of it why I wrote it was to share our experiences and insights. But, it was also the best therapy I could have ever gotten. Now, I feel a real sense of pride and satisfaction knowing how both my blog and book help people every day. Are you using social media to promote your business? How? I use social media daily including Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and Google+. However, I get more interaction on Facebook and find posts I do on social media that are personal and vulnerable resonate more with my readers. There’s an interesting balance between marketing my book and building a relationship with my readers. I care more about those relationships than I do about sales. As long as I keep at it, the sales will happen the way they are supposed to. What was your biggest struggle you encountered starting your business? Sometimes it was just the basics. The technology of creating a blog. Time to write. Inspiration to keep at it even when I wasn’t getting much feedback. Certainly, when I began writing my book, I had a difficult time finding my authentic voice, one that let out all of those messy emotions. About midway through the writing process, I took a sixmonth break from writing anything at all. When I stepped back into it, I found those hard places and it just poured out of me. If you had one wish, what would that be? What is your proudest/greatest accomplishment to date in your business? I certainly knew I’d never earn millions blogging or publishing a memoir about being a special needs parent. But, I knew I had something I could offer facebook 16 I want to continue to touch lives, one family at a time. As the mother of an 18-year-old with special needs, I have a unique perspective that just isn’t out there in the special needs parenting blogging world or books. I’d like to be part of the village that helps parents through their own journey and shows them the positive side to what can otherwise be a very difficult road.§ twitter