The SpecialMoms Parenting Magazine 3rd Issue | Page 15

Valerie Carter
From her watchful perch in CeCe’s backpack,
Miss Matilda was surprised to see a yellow dog
following them. Ugh! A dog!

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Elaborate on this comment:
“I wish I knew then,
what I know now!”
When I was a social worker, I was not a
parent. When I was a teacher, I was not a
parent. Being a parent gives you so much
perspective. It gives you so much more empathy, understanding, compassion and patience. I could have been a better person
then if I knew what I know now.

How has your life changed and
what advice can you give to other
mothers?
I have learned to feel the beautiful pain of
parenthood, the ups, the downs, the thrills,
the fun, the fears, the wonderful roller coastfacebook

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er adventure of it all. As a parent of a child
with special needs, I hope that I have become more sensitive to other parents and
their children. I have learned to recognize
that when a child is excluded, ignored, ostracized, or bullied, the parent is hurt just as
badly if not worse. It is terrible for everyone.
Schools and parents need to make an effort
to teach our children that others may look or
act different but that is okay because we are
supposed to be different from each other.
Imagine if all our children were treated with
kindness and respect. What a happier world
it would be!

Are there any special needs
resources that have helped you
along the way that you would like
to share with other parents?
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