The Soultown! Volume III: Issue 7 JULY 2019 | Page 24

BIG Q! Is A Bald Head Sexy Or Nah? Dear Big Q, I love to sleep in socks, even in the summer. They keep my feet warm and soft. My Boo hates my socks. He says he likes to feel all of my skin -- even my feet. Weird, I know, but I love my socks. I love him too. We have had serious arguments about my socks. I know it sounds petty, but can you help me help him to understand my socks are a part of this package? (Chicago, IL) ~ Sexy In Socks Sexy In Socks, Lol…...I am the complete opposite because I have to sleep without socks when I get under the covers in my bed. This is kind of funny because I must admit that I actually prefer for someone sleeping in the bed with me to remove their socks as well before laying down for the evening. What I wouldn’t do though is have a whole serious argument with my woman about wearing socks in the bed. So you are absolutely right when you refer to this situation as being petty. In my opinion, maybe you should at least attempt to sleep without socks on just to show him that you are trying to compromise with him. If doing so still makes you uncomfortable enough that you don’t want to continue doing it. Then you will have to sit down with him and explain the situation in detail and come up with a solution. This is just a small issue within your relationship that I think can be resolved with minimal sacrifice and effective communication. No need to let it turn into something bigger. Have a blessed day. ~ Big Q Dear Big Q, How important is it that women have long hair? Photo by pexels.com I’m considering cutting my hair bald and I’m concerned with whether or not it will turn men off. What do you think Big Q? Hair or no hair? (East Palo Alto, CA) ~ African Queen BIG Q Male Advice Columnist African Queen, This is a very interesting and relevant question that you are asking. In today’s society, a lot of men and women feel that having long hair is a sign of beauty. This explains why the hair industry makes so much money and women will add extensions to their own hair to make it longer or fuller. Now don’t get me wrong, I do love women with long pretty hair regardless if it is authentic or paid for, but I also like women with natural styles including the bald head. My only concern would be if you have a BIG head. The bald head is only cute to me on women who have smaller heads. So my advice to you would be to only cut your hair off as long as you have the right size head. This advice may sound comedy or maybe even mean to you, but I am only being honest and keeping it real. In my opinion, shorter hairstyles are cuter on ladies who have smaller heads that fit those particular styles. Just keep in mind that regardless if your head is big or not ... and you still decide to cut it low, guys will still see you for the beautiful lady that you are and still be attracted to you. If you do decide to move forward with cutting it, email me a pic so I can see how it turned out. Good luck Ms. Lady. ~ Big Q , Learn more about Big Q’s advice http://www.thesoultown.com/big-q-.html Email Me: [email protected] at July 2019 • The Soultown International Magazine • Celebrating 2 years • Connecting Our Cultures to Our Cyber & Conscious Communities • thesoultown.com 24