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?I?ll take the good news first, thanks,? I replied. ?Well you are leaving us, isn?t that great?? ?And, the bad news?? I queried. ?I don?t know where you are going.? M iracles Or Miser y? Mot ive is Ever yt hing! My question for you is, have you ever created a desire using visualization and the Law of Attraction and regretted it? I have and learned a great lesson about motive. Here is my experience. At one point in my corporate career I was a Principal Engineer supervising a group of twenty-six engineers and technicians. The manager of the 500-person department and I were constantly in conflict because I believed in participative management and he thought I should be a dictator. It was his habit to call me into his second-floor office, prop his feet up on the conference table between us, and begin to chew me out, loud enough for everyone in the office area to hear. There was always a crescendo to his tirade where he would drop his feet to the floor, lean forward across the table with a smirk on his face and The company had been expanding its engineering facilities and purchased a vacant high school near the main research center. I arrived at my new building and office and was greeted by the most morose staff I had ever experienced. It was clear they felt banished to the ?pits? of engineering. A few days later, after transferring my responsibilities to my successor, I gathered my personal property and reported to World Headquarters. At the top of the escalator I turned and walked to my new office. As I entered, I was greeted by my desk facing floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking a park. I was elated. My first assignment was to report to my new manager, a few doors down the corridor. When I entered his office, I was welcomed aboard with a sincere smile and a graciousness uncharacteristic of mid-level management. He explained how happy he was to have me join his group, introduced me to my peers, and described my responsibilities. My manifestation had worked. I had arrived in exactly what I had intended. A Law of At t r act ion St or y By Kar en Bowen Like many individuals, I came to learn about the Law of Attraction through painful life lessons. And, I believe one of the greatest gifts we have to give each other is to share our experiences so others do not have to repeat the same errors. akin to Siberia. I also knew that ?I? had not created this opportunity and decided to assume it was for my greatest good. threaten to fire me. He had been in the Marines and enjoyed these bouts along with getting nose to nose with me on the test lab floor, attempting to humiliate me in front of all the personnel by screaming profanities in my face. I had been attending a Unity Church and decided it was time to put the ideas of manifesting, I had learned, into practice. I began to intend that I work for a manager that appreciated me and was respectful. I also asked, because my current desk was in a windowless room, that I have an office with a window looking out at nature. Each day I would focus on being a ?short timer,? in the position, and put out positive vibes by humming the mantra, ?I love my job, I love my job.? Then one day I was called into the manager?s office. The feet went up on the conference table in front of me but instead of the normal belligerence, he just grinned. ?Well, I?ve got good news and bad news. Which do you want first?? he said mockingly. Page 16 Because I had surrendered and believed the experience was a blessing, my new staff considered my sunny disposition an afront to their gloomy situation. Each time I interacted with my new secretary she rolled her eyes and said, ?You are oblivious.? However, three weeks after my arrival, I was called into a managers? meeting with the division head. The dozen or so of us stood around the small room whispering about what this high level meeting could portend. Then these magic words were spoken: ?All engineering staff must vacate this building. The company has decided to dedicate it to their Management Training Division, which is expanding.? Later, as I sat at my desk, musing about my accomplishments and looking out at the lawn and trees a feeling of sadness came over me. Sitting up straight, as if being shocked awake, I suddenly realized that ?I,? meaning my ego, had created this situation. I silently and fervently prayed, ?Father, forgive me, I will never do this again. Thy will be done.? No one else in that room heard these magic words, just me. I hurried to my secretary?s desk and asked her to update my resume and company file. She looked at me quizzically as if I was again, ?oblivious.? "I'm in, I k now It !" Kar en Bowen I worked at World Headquarters for a year, meeting with Vice Presidents and traveling for the company as a liaison. My test lab wardrobe of polyester pant suits was replaced with St. John knit, three-piece belted suits and Salvatore Ferragamo shoes with matching handbags. ?I am going to apply for a management training position,? I whispered. Her reply was an eye roll and, ?Whatever.? ?No,? I exclaimed, ?you don?t understand. I have been trying to become a management trainer for years and now they are expanding the division. I?m in, I know it.? Then one day my new manager called me into his office and asked me to sit down. The day I met with the head of the Management Training Department I wore my best St. John?s. ?I have good and bad news for you, which would you prefer to hear first?? he said sadly. ?It doesn?t matter,? I replied. ?Well, the good news is that you are not losing grade or pay, it is a lateral move. The bad news is that you are leaving us and you are being sent to ? ? When I heard the name of the group to which I was being assigned I recognized it as an outpost He scoffed at me when I told him that I wanted to be a trainer. "You are an engineering manager. All our trainers come from the personnel division. Why would you want to sidestep your career to do something totally different?? Nothing I said would change his mind. He was Page 17