The Science Behind the Law of Attraction Magazine August, 2015 | Page 52

so long. And worst, your schedule of how you wanted things
to get completed before the party started would be
disrupted.

Activity Level. Today, we realize this one difference can
fully dismantle a relationship if not understood and the
differences not embraced.

If you're Moderate Active you would be on task, and even
though it took longer to get the ingredients, you would have
been in your sprinting mode and feeling confident you
could pull things off.

Moderate Active and Super Active CAN mix nicely, but
only if the two understand, acknowledge and appreciate
their differences.

Unfortunately, if things did not go the way you planned,
because of the extra stress, this would have resulted in a
little bit of love lost between you and your partner. It may
be temporary, but it's too often remembered. Unfortunately
it?s not remembered as a
unique and wonderful
attribute, but as something that
is aggravating or annoying.
These emotions become
"stories" that impact how you
connect in many other
interactions such as your
communications or in the
bedroom.
Outside of romance a
difference in Activity Level can
have an influence over which
friends, family or co-workers
you wish to hang with.
If you're Moderat e Act ive,
your Super Active friends don't
seem to "get you" like your
Moderate Active friends.
Engaging with them is not as much fun or free flowing. With
your Moderate Active friends conversation and activities are
in sync and super comfortable.
Plus, your Super Active friends may think you're either
hyper active or too laid back. They don?t understand how
you can charge ahead at lightening speed and then
suddenly stop, kick back and relax without needing to know
what's next.
If you're Super Act ive, your Moderate Active friends don't
seem to "get you" like your Super Active friends. Engaging
with them slows down your natural pace and often lack the
same level of juicy excitement you get with your Super
Active friends.
And, your Moderate Active friends may think you're
inpatient or lack compassion for how they make decisions.
They don?t understand how important it is for you to have
your days fully planned out and to follow that schedule.
Years ago, we used to pay less attention to a mismatch in
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What You Must do t o keep Love Al ive ?
We can chose to be annoyed and feel disconnected from
our partners, family or friends, or we can realize the
difference can have benefits and really is quite
complementary and even
adorable.
Shopping: If you're not
matched with your partner or
friend, next time you need to
shop for clothes (other than
on-line) remember the
following:
If you're Moderate Active
and your super Active
partner wants to come with,
take them to the stores that
are their favorites. They will
spend more time checking
things out. Or, take them
when you know exactly what
you need, can grab it and go.
They will be impressed. A
super active person can
browse like you can, but they
need this scheduled into their day. Then you are golden.
Last option, shop by yourself and meet them later.
If you're Super Active, take your Moderate Active partner
with you. They will scout the store finding all kinds of
wonderful items for you. Hang out in the dressing room
and let them bring you what they find. You will both love
the experience. Import ant Decisions: If you're Moderate
Active and have a decision to make, and you've given it
some thought, but still uncertain; ask the opinion of your
Super Active friend or lover. They will consider the
situation from a different angle and provide insight you
may be too inside your head to see. They will either have a
very quick answer or no comment. MAKE SURE YOU THANK
THEM for their opinion, because you will likely go back and
re-think it some more, just to be certain it'shat you
believe.
If you're Super Active and you have a decision to make,
but you're either completely overwhelmed and can?t
decide, or you wonder if you decided to quickly, ask the