The Portal Archive August 2012 | Page 11

THE P RTAL August 2012 Page 11 pure privilege volunteers from all sections of society It is a pure privilege to be a Samaritan. For the caller to talk to you about private, and often embarrassing, matters, is a pure privilege. Volunteers are not all middle-class! We attract volunteers from all sections of society, we are not all white skinned either! We provide various services, there is the telephone, There have been days when I think I will give it of course; we do one to one interviews, e-mails. texts all up. However, I think I shall be involved with the and letters. Some branches offer a service for the deaf. Samaritans for a good while yet. a laugh can be beneficial Often I call into Mass Something as simple as a laugh can be beneficial. A All the calls are talked over on the shift and with sense of humour can help. Not that it is funny when the Leader. Often I call into Mass on my way home people are depressed or suicidal, but having a sense of humour helps to take the caller seriously. It is not our job to solve problems. Our job is to help the caller deal with whatever it is that caused them to telephone us, perhaps in a different way. A depressed male caller may be asked if he has shaved that day, or a female one if she has applied lipstick? the call is the callers, not ours We must always remember that the call is the callers and not ours. It is not Samaritans’ job to stop them talking their own life, but maybe we could ask ‘why?’ Usually suicide is the final straw. Even and leave it all at the Altar. A lot of Samaritans are so the caller may not mention the real problem facing Christians, as well as of other faiths, but not all. We are them, other than as an aside. not a Christian, or even a religious, body. Depression is an illness national emergency number With depression, one must realise it is an illness. As 08457 90 90 90 soon as the caller realises this and that you understand, Each Branch is self-financing. General Office you get a reaction. Other illnesses are obvious and get funding, but this does not go to the Branches. visible; depression is not. Branches raise their own cash in any way they can. Some have a shop, others are funded by local charities. young Samaritans Our Branch has no paid staff whatsoever. But we do In the fifteen years I have been a Samaritan, I have have one hundred and twenty to one hundred and done a shift every two weeks and a shift once a month forty volunteers. all night. A shift is four hours. Night shifts were nine hours, now they are either four or six hours. Midnight There is always a minimum of two on every shift. to two o’clock in the morning is the busiest time. There are four day-time shifts and two night shifts. During all that time I have also served as a Branch This would be for a large Branch with three emergency Trustee, Vice Chairman, and Chairman. There is no telephone lines. Each Branch has its own emergency retirement age, but you must be at least sixteen years telephone number, but we do have a national of age to start. Some of our young (young in age that emergency number which goes to the nearest Branch. is) Samaritans are very good indeed. It is 08457 90 90 90.