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SCHOOL NEWS// ANTI-BULLYING WEEK POCKLINGTON SCHOOL STANDS UP TO BULLIES Middle School pupils discussed how being a bystander to bullying makes you just as guilty - and you should step in and stand up to the bully or at least tell a grown-up what’s going on. Students also heard how heart-throb actor and High School Musical star Zac Efron was a shy misfit who was bullied at school, partly because he was more interested in musicals than keeping up with the popular crowd. Zac says he’s learned to deflect bullying attitudes by making a joke and laughing it off before it takes hold - and pupils considered how taking a similar pro- active and positive approach might help them avoid falling into the “victim” mindset. We’ve been marking Anti-Bullying Week at Pocklington School with a series of assemblies and activities to promote the message that everyone should be more accepting of each other – and stand up to people who bully. The theme of this year’s Anti-Bullying Week is “All Different, All Equal,” and pupils have been discussing how everyone has the right to be themselves. Staff also reiterated the importance of getting help to stop bullies – and who to talk to about it. Prep School pupils wore odd socks to show their support for diversity, and talked about how being different shouldn’t mean you’re treated with any less kindness or respect. They also heard how bullying can be physical or mental – but that it hurts and no one should suffer from it. The Lower School had an assembly focused on the different forms bullying can take, and how easy it is for banter to turn into bullying. One person’s perception of “harmless fun” can be very different to that of the person on the receiving end. 22 THE POCKLINGTONIAN Sixth Formers also focused on students’ responsibility to the wider community, as defending people’s right to be different and stepping in to stop bullying in all its forms. Students tied blue ribbons around the school, and staff have been wearing blue, to raise awareness of anti-bullying and remind pupils that it is not tolerated in any form at Pocklington School. Pupils were also invited to take part, on an anonymous basis, in an academic study into the factors affecting young people’s resilience, which can make them more susceptible to bullying. They were be asked to fill in questionnaires compiled by researchers at York St John and Strathclyde Universities, to record their feelings about everyday school life, interactions with their peers, moving up through the school and how they dealt with any concerns. The school is supporting the study as part of its emphasis on effective pastoral care, because the insights it brings will feed into our proactive approach to safeguarding the wellbeing of every pupil. For more information about Anti- Bullying Week, see: http://www. bullying.co.uk/anti-bullying-week/ anti-bullying-week-2017/