Dating in the Tropics
Romantic Gentleman
Going out on a date on vacation , is in essence no different to dating in the place you normally do .
The things you need to take into consideration are places to go on your date , you probably have a plethora of different options from trips to waterfalls , picnic on remote beaches and moonlight walks along the beach to name but a few .
The other generally good thing is that you can be more present in the date . There is no need to be worrying about work and especially checking your phone . This will build great connection with your paramour .
Set expectations , as a gentleman you don ’ t want to mislead anyone about your intentions , those can change but it is better to let everyone know and not upset people later .
Be Careful
No , we are not talking about contraception . Remember we stop at the bedroom door , though we will say a gentleman should always be prepared . What we mean is be a little bit more aware , not everyone or every place is as civilized as you or where you come from .
The bad people in the world like to take advantage of those on holiday . Therefore do be wary of scams , illegal behaviour and other nefarious practices . There is always the occasional story of the other person running off with your valuables , Now , there is no need to paranoid but on holiday your defences are not always as heightened as they might be .
Parting is Such Sweet Sorrow
Now unless you have truly fallen head over heels in love , in which case you will attempt to make whatever romance work wherever the pair of you are in the world .
On the other hand , if you have set the expectation that it is a casual romance , then there will be a point where you will have to part ways and if you have had fun & had a good time then it might be hard .
Compassion , conversation and understanding are the solution to any amicable parting of ways no matter how long or short . Share the good memories and part as friends .
We will write about learning to be charming and other key skills in later issues or you can attend a PG Course for this and all manner or romance life skills
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