Romantic Gentleman
Each culture has different dating rituals and
places to meet and interact from coffee shops
to dance floors & beach bars they do change
somewhat wherever you are in the world.
This advice is equally relevant if you are
looking to romance other holidaymakers or
locals.
Add to this your general dating preparation (as
you should know by now a Gentleman always
prepares) you will be on a happy path to
holiday happiness.
The Holiday Approach
Like approaching anyone in any situation, the
holiday is no different. As we always say at the
PG courses think about the 3 core things:
Appropriateness; Confidence & Charm.
Appropriateness - make sure that when you
approach any one that looks like the right time.
I have seen men approach ladies when they are
in the middle of a debate with a friend or when
they are snoozing on a sun lounger. Timing is
everything, make sure you choose the right
time.
Confidence - the one good thing about being
on Holiday is generally your confidence will
increase. Which is good if you generally lack in
confidence but never be overly confident that
it veers into overbearing or cockiness. Quiet
confidence boosted by the holiday vibe will be
coming through every pore. The key to
building quick rapport is being confident in
yourself.
Charm - Some say you are born with it but we
know it can be taught.
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Being charming on holiday is much easier,
there are more topics of conversation and
people are more likely to give you a little
leeway to be cheeky but never forget to be
self-effacing.
As with approaching anyone anywhere - Keep
your opening conversation simple and gentle.
You can make reference to the place you are
in, whether that be the exact location or the
resort. The goal of the opening conversation is
to gain further time to establish further
rapport.
Finally, if you are rebuffed, politely walk
away. It was not the correct time, place or
chemistry. Never take offence and you never
know what will happen in the future.