The Perfect Gentleman Issue 4 | Page 44

Business Gentleman Climb the Ladder By Zach Falconer-Barfield The game of climbing the business ladder can be a tricky one, broken steps, slippery snakes, a unlucky role of the dice all these things and more can make you slip down the ladder of success. Whether you are in the corporate world or not, we hope some of these tips will help you climb the ladder a little faster to success, whilst always being a Gentleman or Lady. Be Nice It should really go without saying that you should be nice, thoughtful and considerate. Some people will try and drive the agenda of the likes of Gordon Gecko & tell you have to be as ruthless as Machiavelli's Prince. This might get you to the top but you will certainly be lonely, you certainly won't have built relationships that you can trust and to lead through fear or aggression never wins out in the end. So be Nice. Now people frequently confuse Nice with weak or walk over. That is not the case! You can be nice doing a difficult job. Something both Mr Marwood & I learnt working on the doors of nightclubs. It is about establishing boundaries and dealing with every situation with consideration & respect. People will always remember how you made them feel, over what you did. So being nice helps. 44 Remember where you Tread Following on from the above point, no one succeeds on their own, therefore remember where and on whom you tread. My Grandfather gave me some advice, he said be friends with everyone & never burn any bridge unless you absolutely mean it, then burn it well & clear. The reason for this is you never know when people might affect or come back into your life. A case in point, a friend recently applied for a position, the person who would be his boss, was someone he knew 8 years past. They had never worked together but his future boss remembered what a good chap he was and then hired him on the spot. Control what you can Control As with all things in life, you can only truly control what you can control. Which is yourself & your attitude. Therefore, always keep a positive demeanour, have a excellent work ethic, be on time, be prepared, put in the effort & go the extra mile and finally have passion for what you do and do it with energy. These things you can control.