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Tinaye Lee Matabvu : Sha hapana nyaya hauna kuraper unopihwa wifaz yako ...wakaipa kumitisa mudon waboss wakuto promotwa ( There is no case because you haven’t raped, congrats for getting your boss’ child pregnant, you will be promoted.) wa sisi vangu (the young brother of my sister’s husband).l don’t even know what to do. Whether to tell them or just go to South Africa cause the guy is not saying anything reasonable and is not ready to marry me. Help love life. Your comments Nyaradzo Pepukai : Saka kuSouth Africa ndiko k une solution here? (So you think you can get solutions from South Africa. Brighton Makarimai : Don’t stay quiet and just tell your sister...or your mom Munyaradzi Brian Hove : Ungada akuroora nemunhu akaroora kare nxu nxu nxu (do you want to get married to someone who is married already) Stanford Mandigora : Let you sister know. But ita (do it) with caution you might be scooped Rumbidzayi M Mupangwa : oh so sorry just be strong, everything will be fine Prince Tendai Musatyira : You better tell them in time because you can’t go to South Africa pasina waunoziva (without anyone you know), you will be sexually abused there, inbox me if ready to work. Everjoy Madera Eish : You really messed up girl but do not run away from your problems. Face them instead & that is what mighty women with courage do. Above all ask God forgiveness & pray for wisdom through this rough patch. vamwe vachipraiser bonde (I hear others praising sex), but both of us don’t enjoy as much, hameno kune vanoziva (Is there someone who knows), is it normal? Is there a way inoita munhu asanete after sex? (that helps a person not be tired) Your comments Sinikhiwe Ceekay Mhloyi : Babiez you need deliverance everyone should enjoy sex. Tapiwa Mutewedzi : Chimbomwai masilver bullets (Try taking silver bullets) Clyv Bryn Chiduza : Thats sad, but l think you need to start with the little thingz, dirty talk, phone sex, and adventure in your lives, l don’t know how bad the ponography but l think as a couple you need to see it muri mese (together). It’s all about trying new stuff and don’t be formal always. Like muri kumba (at home) on weekend move around in a bikini. ADVENTURE BABY GIRL.....Lol Kudzanai Cool Makwembere : Unenge unonyara iwe. Simba rinouyawo kana uchiona kuti wandinaye ari kuratidza kufarira zviri pano. Saka unoda kuti akuudze kutii mukomana? Action! Cynthia Magwere : Maybe you are lesbian and your boyfriend is gay. What an awful coincidence. Roselynn Isaac Munenge : Muri kushandiswa husiku mese u nied strong prayerz chimbo tsanyai hamusi normal both of u. Sibanda Richard : Maybe it’s the way u go about the business my dear friends. Bvirai kure. It starts nepaphone kuprepare kwacho sending text to each other when u r not together. Mthandazo Mambo : Munenge muchikikiritsana here kana munowiriraa? Hazvide mutsimba my sister, steady Chiedza Charity Mhari : No sex before marriage. Dai watanga wanamata kuna Mwari handiti haasati akuroora For views and comments on this article please email on padarenamhofu@ theparade.co.zw or editor@theparade. co.zw or send your problems and your comments by inboxing Innocent Tshuma on facebook page Love life Generation.
Ex with Benefits
Post I am a girl aged 17 years, in a longdistance relationship, but my ex kips cuming bek to me 4 counselling or weneva he has a problem 4 he says he z more open 2 me than any1 else including his current galfriend coz we lost our virginity 2 each other and we still have sex together behind our partners’ back....I now want 2 let him go 4 gud 2 save our other relationships but I don’t know how 2 do it without hurting hm.. Please help Your comments: Honour K Jokonya : Haaa hey fear not that’s why he is an ex coming to you he knows there is easy free sex ,come on. Michael Chirumba : Chero ukaroorwa nemumwe muchangoramba muchihura (You won’t last in any marriage set up) Martin Tendai Chibanda : Yuhwii (OMG shame) Muchie Kadzuramera : Why call him your ex? This is very current. Godfrey Fumhirwa : Unoda kubatsirwa sei?ari kukuraper here timusunge?? kana uchimusimudzira gumbo nekuti makaboorana saka rooranaika y cheating?U dont have a problem but you are the problem. (Is he raping you, can we apprehend him to the police, if you are consenting to sex then just get married to him) Prudence Ngwere : Mweyayi unokuitisa zvakadaro? (What kind of spirit is this?) U need Jesus Tsitsi Mose : Sorry...uri kushandiswa... and wakapusa....wake up mhani nxa! ( You are being used and you are silly)
Tired after Sex
Post LLG family makadii zvenyu, ndibatsireiwo, (How are you, please help). I am in a relationship with this guy, we both don’t like sex though we have sex here and there. Problem is tese tinobva taneta zvekuti the next day ndinenge ndiri weak zvekutadza kana kuita basa. (after having sex, I am so tired that the next day I am unable to work) Is this normal veduwe? I spend most weekends kumba kwake (at his house) but we can have sex once in 2 months coz of that, ini hangu, l don’t really enjoy sex and he says he’s not all that into it. I am 22, he’s 27, we started havin sex last year, I was his first and he says neni ndini ndakamubvisa hujaya ( l introduced him to manhood). So now we are getting married soon, ndombonzwa
Kissing In-Laws
Post Help. l am a 19 year old jobless girl and l am pregnant by munin’ina wemurume
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