The Online Essential Divorce Course Jan. 2014 Vol. 1, 2014 | Page 10

HAVEAPOSITIVEDIVORCE.
WITH JANET MURRAY

New Relationships
I passionately believe that when you live
your life in accordance with your true
values you will find happiness. It’s when we
are living a life that goes against our true
nature and the core of who we are that we
start to feel out of alignment with
ourselves. Many of these values are in our
unconscious mind and finding out what
your deepest desires and values are enables
your conscious mind to shift.
Divorce can be a time of powerful personal transformation, which will give
you the chance to lead a fulfilling and happier life. Handled wisely, the
lessons of divorce can deepen your nature, enlighten you about your suboptimal behaviour patterns and help you to develop into a wiser and
more emotionally capable person. However, once you start dating again,
you’ll soon discover that many of your old behaviours haven’t gone away;
they’ve just been taking a nap! And so if you want a new relationship, but
without your old mistakes, you’ll need to upgrade your emotional
software. So wouldn’t you like to give yourself the best possible chance for
your next relationship to be a truly magnificent and long-lasting one,
unhampered by your past mistakes?
This session will help you deal with all the aspects of a
new relationship post divorce. You will learn how to
attract and find the right partner, how to deal with the
dynamics of new relationships, exes and families, and to
find the happiness that you deserve.
Ten quick top tips to feel better before starting a new relationship:
• Exercise regularly
• Keep a gratitude diary
• Relaxation, meditation and mindfulness
• Keep around positive people
• Keep your thoughts positive

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• Be in nature
• Laughter
• Eat heal [B