The Old Pocklingtonian 2016/17 | Page 9

FEATURES IN THE SPOTLIGHT GOOD OLD-FASHIONED FUN IS TOR’S WINNING FORMULA A new adventure attraction near Pocklington School, opened by OP Tor Carver (née Sweeting, 88- 90) and husband Christian, is drawing families from Yorkshire and beyond to run, jump, swing and splash to their hearts’ content. As the play area took shape, Tor and Christian had one very willing – and exacting – ‘guinea pig’ on hand to give his verdict: son William, nine, who is a pupil at Pocklington Prep School, and the attraction’s namesake. William’s Den, set in the rolling countryside of North Cave edging the Wolds, is a timber-framed indoor and outdoor playscape offering traditional activities, from den-building and rope-walking to messy mud pie making. “It’s fair to say a lot of the elements we have here are inspired by William, who loves den-building and playing out in the fresh air,” said Tor. “We also wanted to create something the villagers of North Cave and the East Riding could be proud of which could draw visitors from all over the UK. We’re thrilled with the results.” Tor and Christian both grew up exploring the outdoors and wanted to offer children the same opportunities to have fun and build life skills in a safe environment. “It was absolutely paramount for us to provide an opportunity for children to run around in the fresh air, laugh and shriek, get as dirty as they wanted and go home rosy-cheeked, tired out from all the fresh air,” said Tor. “We wanted to offer a multi-dimensional experience which fired their imagination, as well as helping them learn how to be independent. Above all, it was important to provide an environment where families could ditch their electronic devices and enjoy some quality time together.” Tor and Christian hit on the idea of William’s Den after they started letting out holiday cottages, and realised tourists were travelling outside the East Riding for day trips to keep their kids entertained. They earmarked land on Christian’s family farm at North Cave to provide a unique, landscaped attraction for the area. The attraction, which opened in July, proved to be an immediate hit, welcoming over 10,000 visitors in the first month of opening. The Guardian was among those to give an early rave review of the “slick new Yorkshire attraction,” saying: “There really is something here for all ages.” Tor first got to know the countryside around Pocklington School when she arrived from Snaith as a sixth form boarder in 1988, just as her brother, James Sweeting (80-88), left. She was among the first girl boarders at Faircote House and took A levels in French, German and Ec onomics. “I had a great time and made lifelong friends in Emma Longthorpe (née Firth 88-90), Joanna Lawrence (née Wood 88-90) and Bryony Crofts (née Leake 88-90) who married Mark Crofts (85-90), a fellow student and friend in the year,” she said. “I was involved with lots of drama and musical productions with Mr Heaven and Mr Taylor. I particularly remember doing the Mystery Plays and I loved the Musical Society. We had a blast – but I didn’t do much academic work. “I flunked my A levels, which I deserved, but in many respects failure brought out the best in me. It hurt – a lot – but I reflected on why it had happened, then came out stronger and determined to fight for what I wanted to do.” Tor went on to study IT and French at Brunel University, followed by spells working for an MEP, then CNN in Brussels and for MasterCard in London. She spent seven years with Reuters news agency as a Senior Showbiz Producer, with assignments including interviewing The Rolling Stones, travelling round the world with the Backstreet Boys, and covering the Cannes and Venice Film Festivals. After taking time out to study film, Tor returned to Yorkshire to weigh up her next steps, met Christian – and stayed. The couple married in 2007, William was born the following year… and soon, after all her travels, Tor was surprised to find herself enrolling her own child at Pocklington School. “I never imagined myself living in East Yorkshire again – and not in a million years did I see myself back at Pocklington School,” she says. “But I like the emphasis on promoting difference. Everyone has a strength, it’s not just about getting A stars. William is very happy there; he’s a very fortunate boy.” William’s Den, Castle Farm, Beverley Road, North Cave, HU15 2LS, www.williamsden.co.uk 9