The Mahdi Times September 2011 | Page 42

Temporary Marriage in Islam By: HussainTheShortcomer Peace be upon you brothers and sisters, It is an established fact in Islam that it is forbidden for men and women to have contact before marriage. But what if the Muslim can not get married because he/she is financially unable or some other reason makes it inappropriate? All sects of Islam agree that the Holy Book the Quran clearly mentions and allows “pleasure marriage”, or in other words temporary marriage; as well as the Prophet (pbuhaf) allowing it. The Sunni sect say that it was later prohibited whereas the Shia sect acknowledge it. To perform temporary marriage there are certain procedures to follow, the main one being that there should be a contract written up and in the contract the minimum it must contain is a start date and an end date, with specific dates and without any ambiguity. When it comes to debating this issue within the Muslims, the Sunni accuse the Shia, of commiting adultery (by performing temporary marriage) because there is no difference when you do temporary marriage for a couple of days or a week. The Shia reply asking, are you accusing the Prophet (pbuhaf) of allowing adultery at one point in time? Now we are at crossroads! If we follow the Sunni argument, then we risk attributing something negative to the Prophet (pbuhaf), we seek refuge with God from such a thing. And if we follow the Shia argument, then it is quite natural that stating “there is no minimum duration, a couple of days is ok” … will raise a few eye brows. By the Grace and Mercy of God Al-Mighty, the Leader of our Time has clarified this issue quite eloquently: the minimum duration for temporary marriage is 6 months. Indeed this Ruling saves us from many sins, the foremost one being: attributing temporary marriage to the Prophet (pbuhaf) without proper knowledge of it. Indeed, in today’s time and generation, there are many young people and unmarried people. How should they satisfy their urges, which are both completely natural and necessary? And if the answer is permanent marriage, how can they if they are not financially available and/or not have a place of their own, and/or not have the maturity/time to perform it? How can we preserve chastity among the nations, and keep them far away from fornication, adultery and the likes of those two. The answer is quite simply, temporary marriage. As well as preserving chastity, temporary marriage helps to build the community. With the parents being involved at an early age, they can both teach and guide their sons and daughters toward best practices and build relationships among other families, thereby strengthening the community. The relationship between a man and woman can never be substituted by anything else; it is both a natural and holy thing, both the mental aspects of the relationship as well as the physical aspects. One thing to note about the temporary marriage is that anything can be placed inside the contract, including restrictions on where and when they can meet, requirements for a person to supervise and/or if physical contact is allowed. Our leader Imam Ahmad (a.s) has also stated the rational woman (18 years of age) is allowed to wed herself without the permission of her guardian. This is an important ruling as it gives freedom to the woman in the case that she is being oppressed. The full list of rulings for temporary marriage can be read with regards to the four sub branches that are required to be followed. They can be found on the savior website.  The Relationship between Authority and Superiority in the Light of Quran Bism Allah Al Arahman Al Raheem By: MoonlitKnight_14 [49:13] O you men! surely We have created you of a male and a female, and made you tribes and families that you may know each other; surely the most honorable of you with Allah is the one among you most careful (of his duty); surely Allah is Knowing, Aware. The world we live in is one in which the battle between truth and falsehood has been ongoing from the onset of its origin. In fact, the situation has always been such that despite the obvious nature of the light of truth, the blinding cover of the dark fallacy exists and su