The art of lingerie
Lingerie, it can be a woman’s best thing or can be a thing that drives them crazy. I had so many friends complain when their husbands buy them lingerie. Most of them do say, “I am a mom, why do I need to wear this.” You may be a mom, but still a woman. Let’s face it, men are physical, they love sex. We as women need to embrace that. We as women are more into feelings then physical, so yes the thought of lingerie as a gift may offend you because it means he just wants sex.
Let’s look at this from another angle, like I have been doing in this “Art of…” series. Yes, lingerie does mean your man wants to have sex. He wants to have sex with you. Look at it like that, not just he wants sex. Sex is a raw emotional outlet. Like I said for men it all physical, but he wants to be physical with you. Lingerie is one those things that can stir up that physical between a couple.
I personally love lingerie, I always did. In fact the one area I never lost my confidence in was in the bedroom. I always had confidence there. In fact, the bedroom was the only thing my ex said I was good at. I believe it was because I never let myself lose that confidence there, no matter what size I was. I would have loved I he bought me lingerie. It is such a sensual thing to wear, to show off your sensual powers with.