We can be self confident at work. We can even be self confident at social settings, but for some reason, in the seduction department, we lack confidence in ourselves. In reality, seduction is all just a game. The art of it is getting him to notice you. It doesn’t matter what size you are, or the scars you have, he is just seeing you and the power you have over him.
Sounds easy, but we tend to let out little insecurities get in our way and clog up our mind in this area. To stand naked in front of a man, your thinking, “oh I hope my thighs don’t look huge.” This ruins that power moment for us. Even in the act of love making thoughts go across the mind like, “is that my belly flapping?” Again the power moment, when he has his orgasm, that thought, of “wow, I did that to him” isn’t there. Sometimes, hate to say it, because our insecure thoughts, we lose out on
our big "O" moment.
That is why using little tricks, like heels can help you. What it is doing is acting as your tool. You are using a tool, to seduce the man you love. Focus your energy into using that tool. Imagine your Marilyn Monroe, vision her body, if you have body image issues. Clear your mind and think of how you want this man and the power your about to unleash on him.
Depending on how daring you want to be, you can appear in front of him wearing nothing but heels, or if you rather gradually get to that, I suggest just a lacy bra and matching panties. Black tends to be the favorite color when comes to seduction, or wear his favorite color, like blue