Love, to find the one you’re destined to be with. That is the one desire many of us want to achieve most of all, myself included. Sometime we ignore the signs and miss a chance with someone, other times we pay attention and we hit the jackpot. Love is complicated. There are no set instructions to go on.
So why do we make love so complicated? Sometimes the easiest answer is the one that makes it complicated. We over think, we are afraid to take a chance, yet when your destined for someone, they seem to always be there, so why do we fight it?
Some meet one night and married a month later and have a wonderful life together, others date for 5 years, get married and divorced in a year. It is strange, how a band of gold changes some. I know women, they never think of marriage to them it is about the wedding. After that's over, they wonder why it didn't work. Marriage isn't about the bells and whistles of the wedding. Marriage is about wanting to ride the ups and downs of life's roller coaster with some. Being the when the lows hit, sharing in the joys of the highs and holding on tight when the loop de loop comes up. That is what marriages is and love.
One of my favorite stories of love I saw in a movie called, The Butcher’s Wife. In the movie it about Plato’s theory on split a parts. I am putting the clip up, because I actually agree with it. The part I agree with the most is we so busy looking around, that we don’t see what is right in front of us. It goes back to the old saying there are signs everywhere, but we so busy we don’t pay attention, especially when comes to love.