A guy can be so active in church and yet be
a serial womanizer so don’t be fooled. If the
guy doesn’t attend church or doesn’t show
the willingness to have a relationship with
God, don’t even venture! You are only
secure with a man who fears God and is
willing to obey the word of God. Such a man
will treat you well and not damage you.
2. Set & Commit to boundaries
This is one of the most difficult things to do in
a relationship but also one of the most
important and can be achieved by the
strength of God. Phil 4: 13.As Christian youth
in our present world, we’re so susceptible to
the sexist propaganda perpetuated by the
western world. Committing to certain
boundaries will help you fight temptation.
Secondly, it means you two should make the
word of God your guide in your dating life.
You cannot date according to facebook
dating trends if you are a Christian couple.
Decide on visiting times, insist on the door
being left open if you find yourselves alone
is his room, no kissing or touching etc. leave
no room for the devil to plant seeds of sin .
2. Build a Strong friendship
Make no provision for the flesh. Rom 13:4
Get to know each other. Remember dating a
person doesn’t mean you will definitely end
up marrying him. It’s a time to know each
other. Get to know him, his interests, and his
vision, what he wants to do with his life. It is
said it bett er to be with a man who knows
where he’s going than the one who is
comfortable where he is.
Do you share common interests? Is he
interested in you as a person or he’s
more interested in your body? Does he
care about your future, dreams, and
vision or it’s all about himself? Pray to
3. Stop being secretive
You’re not the first person to date a guy and
you will certainly not be the last.. Others
have made decisions that have seriously
affected their future.
You can learn from these experiences by
confiding in a matured Christian to offer you
guidance and mentorship. It can be your
parent, your youth pastor or a
STUDENTSHUBGH mentor.
God about him cos you really need God’s
guidance and after you pray be ready to We are ever ready to assist ‘a friend loveth
listen and obey, no matter how painful it at all times, and a brother is born for
might seem. This will save you future adversity’ Prov 17:17.
stress. See you next edition!
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