The Individual Contributor March 2014 | Page 11

Bottom Line, Inc. Individual Contributor - Participant’s Workbook HOW YOU IRRITATE OTHERS Instructions: Identify the number you selected from the previous handout, “What Irritates You?” Locate that number below to learn how your behaviors may irritate others. Put a check next to the specific behaviors that apply to you. Then, under the same number, draw upon the knowledge of your personal experience to add any other ways you may annoy others. 1. Perfectionism Critical judgments Inflexibility Perfectionism Finickiness Black or White thinking Additional irritations: 2. Emotion Over-concern / Overemotional Intrusion Flattery Manipulation Additional irritations: 3. Superiority attitude Phoniness Superficiality Dishonesty Deception Additional irritations: 4. Moodiness Melancholy Impractical ideas Unrealistic suggestions Over-sensitivity Additional irritations: 5. Excessive Analysis Unfeeling Hasty conclusion Distant or Aloofness Long explanations Additional irritations: 11 | P a g e