meet the man
who’s
refraining
from sex...
JH: So why are you doing this
and how does it work?
AF: I was looking to do something
unique to raise awareness of the
fantastic work the Terrence
Higgins Trust does and thought
that by letting people donate to
keep me in chastity would be a
great idea. Basically it started off
that every £25 the just giving page
increased, a week would be added
to my lock up. From the end of
August it is now £11 a day but if it
gets too out of hand we may review
the rules.
JH: Okay, so there must be
easier ways to raise money for
a charity?
AF: There are, but as someone into
the fetish scene and having many
fetish friends it just sort of seemed
like a fun thing to do. I am not the
fittest of guys so events like
marathons, cycling were a no no.
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JH: What gave you the idea?
AF: I have played with chastity
devices with ex-partners and really
enjoyed it. I have spent a few
months locked before and had a
good idea of what to expect so I
thought why the hell not. I also
spoke with my friends who thought
it would be fun to see me suffer
with sexual frustration. For some
reason they seemed to like the idea
that I had no access to my
manhood and that others decided
how long for.
JH: So how long has it been
now since you’ve had sex?
AF: Barring a switch of device
earlier this year I have been in
chastity since 18th December
2014! I got a brief unlock at the
end of September to ensure
everything is okay. Hygiene and
health checks are very important
with something like this so it is