37. See Joan Rivers Live: You haven’t lived until
you’ve heard the muck that comes out of this 79 yearold’s mouth. It’s truly outstanding.
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38. Visit Disney on the unofficial “gay day”
THIS VALENTINE’S Forget the steak and chips and a
night out with the Mr or Mrs... Head straight to the
bedroom and do not pass go.
39. Climb Kings Canyon in Australia’s
outback: And wear heals at the top to recreate one
of the most famous scenes from Priscilla Queen Of
The Desert.
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36. See Liza / Barbra / Bette / Shirley / Tina:
Witness greatness, that doesn’t need to lip-sync.
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SEX
Proven passion boosters from Durex Embrace Sex
and Relationship expert, Susan Quilliam:
40. Drag it up: Just once, let the inner lady (or
inner man) come out and revel in the attention.
41. Volunteer for a gay organisation or
· Anticipation: Wake each other
with erotic whispers, by tongue-kissing
goodbye as you set off for work, and
send sexy emails and texts all day.
When you get together in the
evening, firstly talk in detail about
exactly what you're going to do to each
other.
· Loving touch: Sensual stroking
doesn't just arouse you, but releases
hormones that make skin and nerves
more sensitive. Plus, it brings you
emotionally closer, which in itself
makes the experience more powerful.
Use Durex Embrace pleasure gels
separately or together, to create a
magic massage experience that makes
you want to go on and on…
charity: Give something back, It’ll make you feel
good!
42. Read Tales Of The City series.
43. See Madonna In Concert.
44. Go to an opera and sit in a box: It’s what we
were meant to do. Even if you don’t like opera,
nothing beats doing a queenly wave to the masses
from your own box.
45. History lesson: Spend a day on Wikipedia or at
the LGBT History website and truly understand the
gay movement.
46. Watch The Laramie Project.
47. Cruise and be seen in Paris’s Top gay spot:
Les Souffleurs in the heart of Marais.
48. Watch in entirety the UK version of Queer
As Folk: And marvel at how brave the programme
makers were for their day.
49. Watch the entirety of the US version of
Queer As Folk: And argue with zealot fans of each
versions about the merits of both.
· Take turns: It can be amazing to
concentrate on one's own sensations
without needing to return the favour. So
let the 'giver' fondle, kiss, lick while the
'receiver' just lies back and enjoys. For
added impact, try blindfolding the
receiver so they can't see what's going
to happen next.
· Exchange control: Set the timer
for 15 minutes, and during that time let
your partner dictate all the moves,
positions, speed, pace and rhythm. Then
set the timer again and you take
charge, saying precisely what you’re
going to do. Add extra erotic charge by
specifying that neither of you can
orgasm until the 'controller' of that
time period gives permission.
· Hold back: Introducing pauses in
to the love act means passion builds
physiologically higher, emotions zoom
upwards - and the climax is stronger. Don't
rush on to the end, instead create hesitations of
a few heartbeats between touches, kisses and
thrusts. And only allow yourselves to tip over
the edge when you're both begging for release.
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