The Gay UK Issue 2 : MR GAY UK | Page 7

TRAVEL 118 BOURNE AGAIN: Melbourne Fall in love with Australia's second biggest city. 122 BIRMINGHAM SCENE SPECIAL Our 7 page special on the Birmingham Gay scene. YOU & YOURS 130 SEXUAL HEALTH 131 THE DILEMMAS This month The Problem Page looks at the pain of an emotional affair. 132 LEGAL CLINIC 133 KNOWING ME… Meet Lloyd and Neil. 135 AND YOU THINK YOU’VE GOT PROBLEMS? Like you’ve never heard her before... Well okay you have... It’s more of the same really. HOW NOT TO BE SO COMMON It’s a constant battle isn’t it? I’m always checking to see whether I or my surrounded friends are being common. Especially after a few bevvies. (Not Really) Ho wever William Hanson has written a book called: How Not To Be Common in 2014 : The Bluffer’s Guide To Etiquette. 1. Never say ‘Pleased to meet you'. You may think you're being terribly nice saying this upon greeting a stranger, but those in the know will have mentally clocked that you are not saying ‘How do you do?' If you don't know who they are, can you be sure you really are pleased to meet them? 2. Revise your handshake. The last time someone told you how to shake hands you were probably very young. Get a loved one to review your handshake honestly. Try to avoid being a wet fish or a bone crusher. People judge others on the quality of their handshake. 3. Abandon Pancake Day. For houses of quality, it's called Shrove Tuesday. Serve crêpes in the evening. Oh, and it's St Valentine's Day, also. 4. Avoid attending Facebook parties. If you are invited anywhere by Facebook then don't go. It won't be worth it and you'll probably be served beer in the bottle or be given wine that hasn't been decanted. 5. Pudding v dessert. The final course of a dinner (and arguably the best one) is the pudding. Note, it is called the pudding. NOT ‘dessert'! If you call your lemon posset with spun sugar basket a dessert when dining with the hoity toity, then you might as well prepare for a future dining at a Toby Carvery - where you can help yourself to the dessert buffet for the rest of eternity. ∎ Buy the book click here 7 THEGAYUK FEB/MARCH 103 THE COST OF THE OLYMPICS We asked our readers what they thought of the Olympic Sponsors. 104 INTERVIEW: Meet Mr Gay UK Meet the man crowned Mr Gay UK. 110 HEALTH Antony Searle talks motivation and getting on track. 112 RUNNING MAN The five best running shoes. 114 YOUR BODY Reader Darren Liddy gets advice from top nutrition expert Robert Hodson. 115 GROOMING 2014 POWWOW