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Pamela D. Koon’s: Mothering and the DNA of fear Pamela D. Koons is executive director of At The WELLness Network Inc. I am inspired yet perplexed by quotations that flood social media with the intent of lifting up women. These quotes receive thousands of “likes” by readers, including me. Women are the creator of life and shouldn’t need to be affirmed by external voices when life begins in their wombs. Yet women have been forced to plead a case for equality and recognition to decision-makers who were born in the womb of a woman. At the risk of being viewed as an insensitive African- American woman, I understand Kanye West’s recent controversial statement. West has received criticism for saying that Africans remained slaves because they wanted to be slaves. I was not upset nor offended. Kanye failed to explain, if he knows, why his statement has validity. The power of the “DNA of fear” is real and scientifically documented. This DNA of paralyzing fear passed through generations of African slaves subjected to brutality, rape, lynching and the separation of families. This inhuman treatment inflicted psychological damage to the victims and their descendants. This DNA of fear kept thousands of slaves under control even though they outnumbered their oppressors. If there was any sign that the physical and mental degradation left an ounce of courage to resist, that courage was met with torture and beatings. These events sent a message to those witnessing that you must suppress resistance and relinquish to the authorities with whips and chains. After the Emancipation Proclamation, some former slaves returned to the plantation of oppression and fear, because they had no place to go, no skills to manage life on their own and it was the slaves’ norm. 4