DZ: Do you believe young people need to have dress codes, or do you think that their individual expression is better suited in formative years?
EB: While I value individual expression, I also believe in the importance of presenting oneself with dignity and self-respect. It’ s essential for young people to understand that how they dress can influence perceptions and opportunities. Finding a balance between personal style and appropriateness is key.
DZ: There was a reel that went viral on social media highlighting an exchange you had with Tamar( who we also love and adore) in an interview with Iyanla Vanzant. You corrected her mid-interview, and it was her humble and respectful response, as well as the reaction of your other daughters present, that confirmed for me that you, Queen, could offer some insight as to how you maintain that level of respect among adult Black women who also happen to be celebrities. Can you share some advice with mothers who are raising independent and opinionated young women today?
EB: It’ s important to foster an environment where open dialogue is encouraged. While I guide and correct when necessary, I also listen and validate their feelings. Mutual respect is cultivated when both parties feel heard and valued. As mothers, leading by example and demonstrating the behavior we wish to see is paramount.
DZ: How has your faith as a Christian influenced your style as the Matriarch of your family?
EB: My faith has been the bedrock of my life. It has provided me with wisdom, patience, and strength. As the matriarch, I’ ve leaned on my beliefs to guide my decisions, offer counsel, and instill values in my children. Faith teaches us love, forgiveness, and perseverance— all essential qualities in nurturing a family.
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