With Evelyn Fuller
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Hello Evelyn,
I did the unthinkable…I fell for a
guy who has a wife, kids, and a great
personality. I know. I know. I know.
Before you toss my question out, I
have to tell you, I know he is looking
to separate from his wife as they gone
their different ways. We are all in the
same social circle and not only has it
become obvious, she told me herself.
I am friends with his wife and over
the years, I have found myself attracted to him more and more, even
though I am constantly telling myself
to stop…but I can’t. I don’t want to
cause scandal and he is on my mind
so much, I don’t feel the need to even
date others as he gives me butterflies
in my stomach every time I see him.
This doesn’t happen with anyone else.
It is all so complicated and I don’t
think I can just shut off the feelings
for him that get stronger. Besides go
jump off a cliff, is there any advice
you can help me out with?
Evelyn: First and most important
“Sistas before Mistas”, you don’t mess
with a friend’s “man”! I’m sure she
confided in you about their relationship for sympathy, not as a green
light for you to move on in! Put on
your big girl panties and move on!
Just a fool in love, from the Villages of RED
from, Definitely Not Craig the Office Mack
Hi Evelyn, My girlfriend shows up
to my work every day and thinks it
is cool to just stop in. I don’t know
how to tell her nicely not to do it. I
am a supervisor, so she knows I set
the rules but I feel she is just spying
on me and the women at my job….
is there anything I can do to not set
her off?
Evelyn: You could find a job that only
employs men. You set the example,
if every employee’s boy/girl friend
came in every day no work would
ever get done! The green eyed monster is going to always be there, tell
her to stop coming by every day and
deal with the temper tantrum like a
man! If she can’t handle it, oh well,
you were looking for a girl friend
when you met her (and they are
easier to find than a new job!).
Wassup Evelyn, Are there swingers
in Maricopa, and how do I get in
contact with them?
“Ya know what I’m sayin!” from Hidden Valley
Evelyn: I’m sure there are many
swingers in Maricopa, including a
few whose spouses don’t know it! You
could try posting an ISO (In Search
Of) on Maricopa Bulletin Board or
one of the many Maricopa Buy, Sell,
Trade pages on FaceBook. The only
swingers I know personally moved to
Wisconsin.