TED EGE COLLEGE / 10-B
Does Social Media Transform Our Personality?
Adasu KURU ‣
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Change is not always sudden or easy to notice. Sometimes it happens slowly, through screens, comments, and expectations. Social media has become a powerful part of our daily lives, especially for teenagers, and it can strongly influence how we see ourselves and others. This leads to an important question: does social media transform our personality?
One clear example of this change can be seen in teenagers who are affected by online hate and cyberbullying. Harsh comments, public criticism, or online“ lynching” can seriously harm self-confidence. Many teenagers begin to feel anxious, insecure, or ashamed after these experiences. To avoid being judged again, they may change the way they act, speak, or express their opinions online. This emotional change often happens silently, but it can have long-lasting effects on identity and self-worth.
Another example is people who try to change themselves to fit social media trends. Influencers often present unrealistic standards of beauty, lifestyle, or success. Wanting acceptance, some users start copying these behaviours instead of showing their true personalities. Over time, they may stop asking what they personally value and focus only on what receives likes and positive reactions. This can cause a loss of authenticity and a feeling of emptiness.
A third common situation is people who always appear happy online, even when they are not. Social media encourages constant positivity, which can pressure users to hide their real emotions. Many people share smiling photos while feeling sad, stressed, or lonely in real life. This difference between online appearance and real emotions can create inner conflict and emotional exhaustion.
In conclusion, social media does not completely transform who we are, but it can cause significant changes in how we think, feel, and behave. Being aware of these effects is essential. When used consciously, social media can be a positive tool, but without balance, it can slowly reshape our personalities in unhealthy ways.