The Charbonneau Villager Newspaper 2019 Apr issue Villager newspaper | Page 4

4 THE CHARBONNEAU VILLAGER April 2019 because the adults who care for these children exhibit the kind of skill and understanding that is needed. These wonderful adults show only love and acceptance and set boundaries with By MARGARET WIESENTHAL kindness. Boys and Girls Aid does this in the way it should be done. Is this expensive? You bet it is! That is why we, at the Cypress branch of Boys and Girls Aid in Charbonneau, assist by putting on the Crab and Rib Dinner that many of you attended March 2 at the Club House. We are The Nest is a house where Boys and Girls Aid takes care of thankful for the donations that came pouring in on that evening some of the most abused and neglected children in the Portland area. Some of the children have been so abused that all they are for the Boys and Girls at The Nest. We also raised money for many other caring ways in which Boys and Girls Aid helps able to do is act out in anger. Anger comes from fear. Anger children to become loving and productive adults. comes from fear of being beaten, fear of being left alone on the Monica Ford, pictured here, is the director of The Nest and sidewalk, fear of not even being looked at or acknowledged. spoke to the Charbonneau Branch of Boys and Girls Aid at our When this happens to children and toddlers, they become so last luncheon. She told us about the care given at The Nest. angry and confused about life that all they can do is act out their The Cypress Branch of Boys and Girls Aid here in anger and confusion. The boys may become physically abusive Charbonneau supports these efforts with time, talent and to people and objects. The girls are more likely to become donations. Each month we meet for a luncheon at SpringRidge. withdrawn and depressed. The next one is May 17 at 11:30 a.m.. Cost of the luncheon is $15 The counselors and “parents” at The Nest know this. They at the door. Visitors and guests are welcome. At the May accept these children for what they are: ABUSED CHILDREN. luncheon we will hear about what is new and what is going on at The children at The Nest, ages birth through age 8, Boys and Girls Aid. For further information about this luncheon desperately need this love that is shown to them so that they call Cherie Sanville at 503-694-5826. For more information about will grow into young men and women and then into adults that can show love to others. Love that is shown to a child helps that Boys and Girls Aid please visit our website, www. child, first to love themself, and then to show love and kindness boysandgirlsaid.org. To see what is happening at the Charbonneau Cypress Branch to others. Is this happening at The Nest? YES it is! It is happening please visit www.cypressonline.org. ■ Boys and Girls Aid Fundraiser helps aid abused and neglected children in region COURTESY PHOTO Monica Ford is director of The Nest, a home for abused and neglected children. Custom Designed Kitchens & Bathrooms “We build cabinets the old fashion way!” Noah Built the Ark without a computer. Remodeling: Our Specialty Customer Service: Our Priority Call to Schedule Your Free Estimate 503-266-2458 24582 S. Barlow Road, Canby Kauffmanww.com CCB# 95273