The Catalyst Issue 2 | Winter 2009 | Page 21

“This program gave our normal, healthy Army family the assistance to handle the abnormal, unhealthy losses that three prolonged family separations brought to our children.” — Tracy Kehrer Those multiple deployments put unprecedented amounts of stress on families and relationships, Dr. Kotrla says. “One of the major triggers for suicide after deployment is the breakup of a relationship. We offer treatments and interventions in strained relationships to help families realize that readjustment is normal, that everyone is struggling with these issues, and there is support available.” Soldiers may spend three months preparing for deployments of 12 to 15 months, and three months readjusting afterward. “So basically, you have to catch up on child development, spouse changes, everything, in six months,” Ms. Trent says. “Families are telling us that is just not enough time.” The program is working on a model for best practices for this situation, she says, including teaching parents how to maintain their resiliency and help their children. Continued Support Operation Home Front is now in the second year of a two-year grant. To keep it going, Scott & White will seek funds from individuals, corporations and foundations, Mr. Wright says. He is also hopeful that additional TRIAD funds will become available when the current grant ends. “Our soldiers and their families need support not just when they get home, but for many years,” Dr. Kotrla says. Ms. Kehrer hopes that the program will continue as well. “This program gave our normal, healthy Army family the assistance to handle the abnormal, unhealthy losses that three prolonged family separations brought to our children. Their dad missed Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s and the girls’ birthdays two years in a row. We hadn’t even brought closure to the heartaches from the first time he left. We can’t let this program end.” ■ Military Support Conference Held at Scott & White In June 2008, Scott & White hosted a two-day meeting of representatives from 24 government, educational, non-profit and healthcare organizations across Texas that serve military personnel and families dealing with issues related to deployment to Afghanistan and Iraq. Some of the organizations are recipients of grants from TRIAD, and others were interested in applying for a grant. “The conference provided an opportunity to better understand what services are available, how to better reach military families and how to provide effective, efficient and sustainable programs,” says Matthew Wright, director of foundation and corporate relations, Scott & White Healthcare. “It also gave attendees the chance to hear, directly from military families, what is important to them.” At the luncheon sponsored by Scott & White, a panel of 10 representatives from military families gave firsthand accounts of the stresses of deployment, the barriers to securing mental health services, and the cost to military families. General Raymond Odierno, currently commanding Multi-National Force-Iraq, and Colonel Brett Wyrick of the National Guard also spoke to the conference about the desperate need for support for these families. “The message was clear,” Mr. Wright says. “The military does its best, but the need is too great, and families need and deserve the help of these organizations.” Winter 09 THE CATALYST 21