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[C ONTINUED FROM P AGE 8] to us helps our clients value our advice). Truly creative astrologers, in the long march to self understanding, are constantly reeval- uating and interacting with their created boundaries, rather than just reacting to them. This creativity requires asking our- selves some important questions in order to deal authentically with basic fundamental situations in our professional lives. Asking the right questions is more important than coming up with “correct” answers. Just as Saturn rules fear and limitation it also rules discipline and structure. Fear is responsible for creating continuity through the urge to be safe. This allows a founda- tion for growth to develop. Limitation al- lows us to set priorities. It is not possible to do everything. The limits of time, money, ability, energy, understanding, allows us to determine what is most important. Bound- aries are mental clarifiers. Thus, prioritizing and discipline are necessary for us to de- velop as people and to accomplish any task. As important as structure is for any real growth or development we often experience structure as inherently a limit, a fear, a big “No”. However, saying “no” to one thing, al- lows us to say “yes” to something else. As astrologers, it is the establishing of our pri- orities that allows us to see clearly the boundaries unique to our field. By recognizing and dealing with bound- aries creatively and correctly, we build and defend the potency of the work with our clients and help them inadvertently to value and respect the astrological work and also themselves. The dynamics of the as- trologer/client relationship becomes a more conscious tool of the astrologer. This allows our relationship to our clients to have a deeper and more meaningful impact on our lives and the lives of our clients. The river needs banks (boundaries) as well as water to flow toward the sea. When boundaries and substance are cor- [C ONTINUED ON P AGE 10] O P A  rectly balanced, significant force is created in the work, propelling us toward sustained personal growth. Too many banks (bound- aries) and the river is dammed up. Too much water (contact) and the river over- flows, the banks wash away, and the water loses direction; the ocean is not reached by the water. In the astrologer/client relation- ship, the boundaries set by you, the as- trologer, to restrict clients’ access to you, helps maintain focus and direction so the work has a deeper impact on their lives. You set the banks of the river aiding the water on its journey to the ocean. In the as- trologer/client relationship, astrologers carry most responsibility for setting and maintaining the boundaries - because they have greater power in establishing the con- text of the relationship. We can easily split boundaries into two types; natural and created. Natural bound- aries are objectively measurable. Examples of natural boundaries are separations of time and space i.e. two people living on different continents or in differ- ent centuries. Created boundaries are subjec- tive and not easily ex- ternally measured. These are “rules of thumb” or conventions people use to facilitate social interaction. Ex- amples of created boundaries would be rights of property ownership or rights to privacy. Laws, rules, and principles of behavior are created bound- aries. We can have as many of these types of boundaries as we find useful. Time and Space are natural boundaries. Conventions and rules around their limitations are created boundaries. We have the responsibility to be reason- The Organization for Professional Astrology 9 ably disciplined with time. This practice as- sists our work to flow smoothly as clients can then rely on our punctuality with start- ing and concluding each session. How do you deal with a late arriving client? Or, someone refusing to let you conclude a ses- sion in a timely manner? Experience itself teaches us the practical procedures for han- dling problems of time. And through our experience, we come to understand why time is such an important boundary. Ulti- mately, we as astrologers render our services by apparently selling our time. However, even though time is the mechanism through which we sell our services; we are not selling our time, we are selling value. Through our work we add something meaningful to our client’s life. But, our time is a necessary vehicle for the delivery of this value, and time is a limited commodity. How time is used becomes foundational to our effectiveness. Time wasted is not re- gained. Once time is invested, that time is gone. You have a responsibility to make sure that your time is used properly. When ei- ther the client or astrologer is late for an appointment, or wastes each other’s time, they throw the other person’s day off schedule, which in turn, inconveniences many other people. When clients waste your time they are not only stealing from you, they are stealing from themselves. The same is true for you as an astrologer. When you waste a client’s time you are stealing from the two of you. This doesn’t mean that in a search for greater economy of time you are to be impolite, brash, or unnecessarily hur- ried through each session. Just be aware that time is limited and remains your most valuable commodity. At the begin- [C ONTINUED ON P AGE 10] THE CAREER ASTROLOGER SPRING 2013