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About three out of ten (29.1%) said that, on average, mental illness is never mentioned in sermons at their church. More than 40% of church leaders have never reached out to and ministered to a family within their congregation with someone who has mental illness. Although 80% of church leaders believe mental illness to be "… a real, treatable and manageable illness caused by genetic, biological or environmental factors," only one out of eight (or 12.5%) of them said mental illness is discussed in a healthy way in their church (Simpson, 2013:144). Mental health is a real issue that presents real needs for God's people. If the church is likened to a hospital, it has to advertise its ability to address all sickness. Once the church speaks up, people will turn to the church rather than from the church for help. The church has to break the silence! Destigmatize the Issue It is important that we have destigmatize mental illness. A stigma is a mark of disgrace associated with a particular circumstance, quality, or person. It is interesting and telling that the church views physical ailments (i.e. diabetes, cancer, etc.) as part of life. However, mental illness is largely viewed as a lack of faith. We live in a society where everyone feels the pressure to appear okay and in control an d that pressure is magnified in the church. After all, believers should have every issue resolved upon receiving Christ, correct? Wrong! Receiving Christ means that we are saved (by grace and through faith) and that we are now in right standing with God. Our sins are forgiven and we are able to walk in the newness of life. That does not mean we are no longer impacted by the challenges resulting from living in a fallen world or being wrapped in sinful flesh. In fact, what it means is that we have a Father, a Physician, an Advocate, and Friend to whom we can turn in times of need. That is the privilege of the believer! It is time for the church to break its silence around mental illness, The BrighterLife Magazine | Page 23 destigmatize it and offer a solution! The Church is the Solution Scripture makes it clear that sin may be the problem: Proverbs 28:13: “People who conceal their sins will not prosper, but if they confess and turn from them, they will receive mercy”. Psalm 32:3–5: “When I kept silent about my sin, my body wasted away by my groaning all day long. For your hand was heavy upon me day and night; my strength was exhausted as in a summer drought. My sin I acknowledged to you; my iniquity I did not hide. I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the Lord.' And you forgave the guilt of my sin!” Psalm 38:4–7: “For my iniquities have gone over my head; like a heavy burden, they are too heavy for me. My wounds stink and fester because of my foolishness, I am utterly bowed down and prostrate; all the day I go about mourning. For my sides are filled with burning, and there is no soundness in my flesh”. Psalm 38:18 “I confess my guilt. My sin troubles me”. When sin is the issue, we must offer hope and help members seek God, until He makes an exchange. In Isaiah 61:3, God says that He would “give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.” God is all powerful. He is well able to lift someone out of depression. Churches with members suffering from acute mental illness (i.e. depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, etc.) may have to take a more measured and multilevel approach. There is a time to pray, counsel, preach the Word of God. There is also a time to assist in a deeper way. What more can be done? I believe churches that take a more multilevel approach will do the following: Educate and train leaders on the way in which to recognize mental illness; Have plans to assist families affected by mental illness; Employ counselors who are skilled in dealing with mental illness; Create a mental health ministry (counselors, ministers, etc.); Connect with community partners who are trained and skilled in the treatment of mental illness; Communicate to congregations about local mental health resources; and Destigmatize and break the culture of silence that leads to shame. What is the mind of Christ in this matter? God wants to use the church of the living God to re-present Himself on earth to meet the needs of Believers. Saddleback Church (United States), where Rick Warren is pastor, adopted a mantra that should be examined by all churches. It reads as follows: We (Insert your church name here) care about the whole family, and we want to care about them for their whole lifetime. We want to minister to the physical, spiritual, emotional, relational and mental needs of a person because Jesus did (Bible Registry, 2015). Churches across the world should take this same approach. We are the salt and the light, leading people to the hospital. Let us make sure that we have the necessary help available when they get there. Amen and amen. Dr. Matisa D. Wilbon PhD.