The Belly Dance Chronicles October/November/December 2015 Volume 13, Issue 4 | Page 28

Thank You By Tess Haranda To my mentors and instructors who perform - thank you. My church has had an amazing musician who helped coordinate the Praise Band and accompanied everything for our choir. Her abilities on the piano blow me away, and I was pretty good back in the day. She also teaches piano lessons and held recitals at our church. She was practicing and talking with me one day, and she said she was working on some pieces that she would play at the end of her student recitals. I was very impressed. I had some of the finest piano teachers while I was growing up, but not one of them ever performed. None. I took a moment to think on this, relating it to dance. Every bellydance instructor that I’ve ever studied under continues to perform. Every. Single. One. Some dance solos; some dance within troupes; some do both. All of their students wait with this crazy fangirl and fanboy moment to see their teacher step on stage. We love it. We crave it. As students of any endeavor, we still want to see what our instructors can pull out of the hat to inspire us. We started our journeys because we’d seen these amazing people on stage. But not only do they have brilliant creativity, blazing skills, and personality to capture an audience, they have put their trust in us when they are in a vulnerable moment. Think about this - performing is an act of trust where performers show an inner part of their soul. It’s not just that the audience responds with wild cheers, but with respect for that risk and vulnerability. Performing requires new ideas and pushing yourself and expanding the boundaries of your artistry. Instructors who don’t continue to perform… well, do they really continue to grow? If they perform in other areas, just not for their own students, what message does that give? Is the give and take of trust flowing back and forth? Thank you, Heather (New Song Piano Studios, Texas), for performing on piano for your students. I enjoy the magic you create. To all of my instructors, especially my first belly dance instructor Isis (Isis and the Star Dancers, Texas), thank you for continuing to give us a little part of you and trusting us as you take the stage. TESS HARANDA Tess Haranda is a life coach, mom, writer, and teacher. Learn more at www.successwithtess.com. Isis performs at a studio hafla, January 2015 Photo by William Hohmann 28 The Belly Dance Chronicles  October 2015 Photo by Kaitlyn Haranda