The Belly Dance Chronicles Oct/Nov/Dec 2017 Volume 15, Issue 4 | Page 32

Backstage Etiquette DOs & DON’Ts for Sharing the Dressing Roo m By Mahin If you ask a group of experienced bellydancers about backstage experiences, you’ll likely hear a lot of stories - from heart-warming acts of kindness to acts that will make you seriously question humanity. As bellydancers, we rarely have spacious, luxurious, star- quality dressing spaces. The reality is usually a crowded room with suitcases on the floor, a few mirrors and a table - if you’re lucky - and poor lighting. However, no matter how good or bad the facilities are, our behavior is the thing that has the biggest impact on the backstage experience - for positive or negative. Here are some tips from the glitter trenches: Have a small footprint. Put your gig bag down and keep your stuff close to it. Costume suitcases do have a way of “exploding” once you start getting dressed, but fold your things up and keep it all contained. Packing up will be that much easier later. No photos, please! What? People really do that? Yes, I’m sad to say they really do. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. If you really must do a pre-show selfie for Instagram, do it in the hall. 4 feet behind you people are getting naked. Think before you shoot. Share the mirrors. If there are only a few mirrors for lots of dancers to share, be courteous. Get in, get glittered and get out. Don’t park yourself with your full makeup bag to do your whole face. If you aren’t going to arrive with most of your stage face on, bring a mirror of your own to use 32 The Belly Dance Chronicles  October 2017