The Atlanta Lawyer December/January 2020 | Page 9

FROM THE BOARD This issue's theme of The Atlanta Lawyer is Expectation vs Reality. Ask the Board Describe an expectation you had, a reality you discovered, or a lesson you experienced in your career. and asked the student if he wanted me to explain why opposing counsel was wrong and I was right. Opposing counsel roared with laughter, and we explained our respective positions. The Judge came in and said, “Don’t let me interrupt. Y’all keep talking.” We resolved the discovery issue. Robert Wellon Wellon Family Law Early in my career, we had a hotly contested custody case on appeal. The Supreme Court ruled against us, so we filed a motion to reconsider, but we were not successful. Then, we filed another motion whereupon they reversed themselves totally. Simutaneously, our client had been calling almost daily, asking for any available updates, so much so that I lived with that the case became my whole life. It completely consumed both my team and me. I resolved then I would not get so involved that I would lose my objectivity (and sanity), but it is still hard though! Jessica Wood Bodker, Ramsey, Andrews, Winograd & Wildstein, PC I have been surprised and heartened by the role of kindness, grace, and courtesy in getting great results for clients, while making the practice of law more pleasant. One time, my opposing counsel knew that I was about to cross- examine a witness for the first time, perhaps because I was quaking with nervousness. Before I could get up from my chair to approach the witness, opposing counsel leaned over and whispered, “go get ‘em, Tiger!” In another instance, my opposing counsel brought a high school intern to observe argument on a discovery motion. I approached the student, introduced myself, www.atlantabar.org THE ATLANTA LAWYER 9