The Aisle November 2014 #1 | Seite 6

Text: Sadity Photograph: BlackLotus Do’s and Don’ts Editor: BlackLotus Do’s - Do make sure your spouse is involved with the planning of the wedding (unless it’s a - Don’t be a bridezilla or groomzilla - Don’t let anyone rush you to get married. Take your time. If the love is real, he/she isn’t going anywhere. - Don’t have family members or friend’s voice their opinions on anything concerning your special day, unless they’ve paid. Remember it’s YOUR wedding. For Your Wedding Planning a wedding can be stressful for the bride and groom to be. Everyone has their own ideas of what should and shouldn’t be acceptable for a wedding. We surveyed one hundred people from the IMVU community to come up with a guided list of what to expect. Here are a few key points of “Do’s and Don’ts” when planning for the big day. Don’ts surprise) - Do plan ahead (two months prior) to ensure everything you want is in place for your big day -Don’t Go overboard trying to be different. The only thing that matters is you and your future spouse. - Don’t bug or stress your wedding planner. The planner has it under control - Don’t keep changing your wedding date. Find a time that fits you and your future spouse. - Don’t overthink or stress about the minor details - Don’t be late to your own wedding family. It’s ok to boot. Now that you have read over these key points, be sure to keep them in mind when beginning to plan your wedding. If it caus es too much turmoil or stress during the planning process, then remove it altogether. We wish you the best and we hope this article was helpful to you. - Don’t wait on anyone to begin your ceremony. Remember who and why you’re getting married. - Don’t have unwanted guest at your event trying to ruin your special day Even if it’s they should have one. Read all disclaimers. - Do keep a flexible budget when planning your big day: Minimum 20,000 credits - Do have a exact date and time for your wedding. - Do think outside of the box for your attire for the wedding Do enlist the help of a wedding planner, friends, and/or family to reduce the stress - Do think outside of the box for your wedding venue - Do have questions ready for your planner, if you should enlist one. - Do read over your planners website or group thoroughly if - Do let your guest know your expectations for your big day (i.e. no voice boxes) - Do have fun at your wedding with friends and family ON PHOTO: ExadysisMD, CEO of BKR F.A.C.E.S. 6 – THE AISLE 7 – THE AISLE