bad, and the ugly. But, you
can also demand your respect as well. Your spouse is
suppose to be your champion and if a situation arises,
it is up to your spouse to
handle that situation, to
make sure ur not being
disrespected by any family
members. If your spouse is
more concerned about losing this person as a relative
on IMVU then what you two
share, you have your answer as to where the loyalty
lies. You can be certain that
what you thought u had
is only a figment of your
imagination. You then have
to be in self preservation
mode and do what it is best
for you to have peace in the
place where you are suppose to have peace.
If you find yourself in
a situation where your family is being hateful to your
spouse, you have to remove
those people from your
IMVU life. A real family
supports whatever decision
you make and if they truly
don’t care for your spouse,
as an adult, they can at
least be cordial or be quiet
at family gatherings. When
the chips fall and you and
your spouse don’t work out,
your family is to support
you, not tell you “I told you
so”. It’s hard enough trying
to find love on IMVU just to
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Your
spouse is suppose to be your
champion and if
a situation arises,
it is up to your
spouse to handle
that situation, to
make sure you’re
not being disrespected by any
family members.
have some hating family
members trying to thwart
it. Always ask the question
as to why they are disliking you or your spouse. If
they answer is something
childish like, “I just do.” or “I
don’t have to like her” Then
chop that family member
up as a loss and realize it
may be a lot deeper than a
dislike. He/she may want
you for themselves. I mean
this is IMVU..brothers and
sisters, sisters and sisters,
marry each other all the
time and everyone just
turns a blind eye. Mainly
because this is IMVU, its not
like they are blood related
right?
There are benefits
in marrying the family as
well because they become
your family. You gain new
parents, siblings and if your
relationship is great , that is
a bonus. Family dinners and
the warmth of love would
leave you waiting for the
next family gathering. If
you never had sisters before, your spouse instantly
gave you at least 2 of them
for you to dish some dirt
with.
No matter what,
always do what’s best for
you and your spouse. I
happy wife is a happy life.
That saying has never been
wrong. Protect your queen
as she will protect her King.
For the pawns on the table,
remove them each time
they get close trying to destroy your wonderful IMVU
life.l
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