Text: BlackLotus, Editor: BlackLotus
Photograph: BlackLotus
Before You Say
I DO
THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO SAY I DO OR EVEN ACCEPT THE
PROPOSAL.
Before you say I Do
Getting married on IMVU can
be taken two ways. A big deal for
some who have found love and just
a game for others who just want
a status change. This report is for
those who have found love in a avatar and want to spend their IMVU
life with said person.
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Check Gender
Some things to take into account; just
because you’ve fallen head over heels with
the avatar, doesn’t mean that avatar share the
same feelings. Some people are really here to
play and your emotions are not an exception.
Sometimes, feelings just change over time and
there is not much to be done or said about
that. Make sure you’ve taken enough time to
properly get to know the person. I’ve seen in
so many cases, people get so wrapped up in
the “honeymoon” phase, that they will say yes
to anything, including a marriage proposal. To
later find out that this person isn’t who they
say they are or their intentions isn’t what they
said there were.This report is to hopefully save
you from unnecessary heartache and disappointment. Let’s begin.
Before you say I do, check the
gender!
If you are not lesbian/gay, check to see if the
person is the correct gender. IMVU has a
lot of females pretending to be males. Their
Also, check the pattern of this person you
gender on their profile card says male, their
are marrying. If this person has had more
orientation says straight, and most recently,
than two IMVU marriages, a pattern of
hidden. Before any marriage proposal or
cheating, or you got this person while they
saying yes to one, u should by that
were cheating on his/her relationtime either voice or video chatted
ship, please be aware it will
via Skype, Oovoo, Yahoo, or
happen to you. How this
IMVU has a lot
phone. There should be no
person has ended their last
of females pretending
excuse as to you getting a
relationship, will determine
to be males. Their gender on
divorce because you all of
how they will treat you
their profile card says male,
a sudden found out the
and their intentions as far
their orientation says straight,
person you were with all
as fidelity is concerned.
and most recently, hidden. Bethat time was a female.
Do not be fooled by
fore any marriage proposal or
You leave the door open
this person sending
saying yes to one, u should by
to people assuming you
you gifts, credits, or
that time either voice or video
knew already and you’re
subscriptions. It does
chatted via Skype, Oovoo,
just mad about being
not mean they love you
Yahoo, or phone.
divorced when it all comes
more. You don’t know
out.
what happened in that last
relationship, only what your
Before you say I do,
fiance is telling you. Be your
check commitment.
own investigator and make the
judgement on your own.
If your fiance still has ties to the ex, find
out why and if there is a serious need for
If the person you are with has a real life
communication. There is nothing wrong
relationship, do yourself a favor and try to
with still being friends with an ex, howstay clear of this person. Yes, some of you
ever, if there has been bad blood between
may fool yourself into saying this is just a
u and the ex, your fiance should not have
any contact if he/she wants to preserve your
relationship. Yes, in many cases there are
children involved. But remember, this is
IMVU and if your fiance is truly valuing
you, he/she will either make a new account
for those children if no one is role playing
them or leave that relationship up to that
avatar child. If these are furniture babies,
there is no reason or excuse for the ex to
have communication with your fiance and
vice versa. If they are making an argument
to that fact, there are still feelings involved
and they should be reviewed.
If your fiance is sending messages to the ex
and she shows you that he/she is still trying
to win their heart, believe it. Don’t make it
into a fight about who loves who more. It’s
clear that this person is just being greedy
and trying to play the both of you. Find
the strength within yourself to love you more
and let that relationship go. Because if it’s
not the ex then it’s definitely someone else
in PC.
ON PHOTO:
Sadity and Caice. Mgr of Black Empire
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