Recommendations for Couples Therapy With Arab American Clients
Though Arab Americans account for 3.5 million of the United States population , little is known about their mental health . However , we do know that relationships between Arab American couples are significantly influenced by their family of origin , culture , and religion . Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors ( LCMHCs ) who treat Arab American couples can be helpful to them by anticipating that Arab American couples may view common couples issues — such as infidelity , sex , intimacy problems , commitment issues , and intimate partner violence — differently than clients from other cultures .
Arab cultures place a strong emphasis on family , loyalty , tradition , and community ( or collectivism ); therefore , understanding the complexity of Arab cultures and traditions is fundamental for understanding the population . Arab Americans emphasize family ties and tradition as they relate to maintaining a sense of belonging within the Arab American community .
Arab American couples are influenced by immediate and extended family , elders , significant members of both cultural
Eman Tadros , PhD , LMFT , is an assistant professor and marriage and family counseling track leader at Governors State University in the Division of Psychology and Counseling . She is a licensed marriage and family therapist , MBTI certified , and an AAMFT Approved Supervisor . She is the current Illinois Family TEAM leader advocating for MFTs and individuals receiving systemic mental health services , and her research is centered on incarcerated couples and families .
Abrea Ramadan is a graduate student counselor in training at Governors State University pursuing a master ’ s degree in Marriage , Couple , and Family Counseling . Much of her research interests align with her heritage , culture , and religious beliefs . These include Arab American couples , Arab women health , Muslim youth mental health , and Islamic psychology and counseling . Ramadan plans to continue her education through a doctoral program . and religious communities , and even neighbors . In the Arab and Arab American community , this is commonly referred to as “ What will people say ?” This saying reflects the honor , tradition , and culture that guides the behaviors and actions of Arab American couples .
When Arab American individuals and couples make major life decisions , they must find a balance that satisfies both Arab and American cultural needs . The duality of Arab American couples , in their experiences of both Western and Arab customs , allows them to benefit from stressful events together , as they both acknowledge the value of culture and tradition .
COUPLES THERAPY FOR ARAB AMERICANS
Arab and Arab American communities have endured great amounts of trauma , some as individuals and some as a collectivist trauma — oppression , discrimination , stigmatization , etc . Yet Arab Americans typically underutilize mental health resources . LCMHCs know that one of the most important elements in effective mental health counseling ( not only for Arabs and Arab American clients ) is the importance of the clients feeling seen , heard , and understood . Because many Arab and Arab American couples believe that most Western or non-Arab counselors will not respect or
Marram Salman , NCC , is a counselor in training , and an MA candidate who is expected to finish her master ’ s degree in Counseling ( Marriage , Couples , and Family ) from Governors State University in the spring . She works with individuals , families , and couples with issues that include grief and loss , anxiety , and depression , as well as relationship and self-esteem issues . She has additional experience with art and play therapy , and with the Gottman Method . understand their values and culture , many Arab American couples who are experiencing difficulties simply do not seek professional counseling .
Some barriers and stigmas that deter people from receiving mental health services , such as language or cultural barriers , affect Arab and Arab American individuals as well as couples . Another deterrent is that Arab and Arab Americans may expect that Western therapists will not only not understand and
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