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DIDN’T WANT TO LIVE By Nancy Conner O When I started with Pathways, the nurse actually came to my house to explain how they would work to help me feel better. At different times I’ve had visits at home from a doctor, nurs- es, social worker and spiritual coun- selor. Each time they called or visited to check on me, they focused on me and really listened to how I felt. They showed me kindness and respect. They even helped my caregiver too just by being there. A year ago, I asked God to send someone that could help me as I felt I was headed to see my daddy in heav- en. That next week, I went to see my doctor and she said, “Nancy, I can’t do much more for you but I’ve got you hooked up with something that will be better for you. It’s called the Pathways Palliative Supportive Care program. They are a good group of people that know what they are doing.” It was the answer to my prayer. It took a few months of adjusting my medications and understanding my symptoms to help me feel better. And now, it’s like a Miracle, it feels like Christmas every morning – I can get out of bed, get dressed and feel good. I’m not afraid now, not in so much pain and it is a lot less stressful. The better I feel the more I want to live. ver the past ten years, I’ve had multiple surgeries, a massive heart attack, been placed on a feeding tube, struggle with severe anxiety and have fibromyalgia. Some- times I would be so sick I would can- cel my doctor’s appointments and stay at home. I was tired of going to them as most doctors don’t take the time to know you. I just didn’t want to get out and live. I encourage doctors to not overlook the value of the Pathways Program to those of us that are sick or older. Peo- ple should call Pathways when no one seems to help them and they feel like giving up. Ya’ll have given me hope. In fact, I told daddy to keep holding on, it may be longer before I join him! www.homehospice.org Palliative Supportive Care Helping You deal with the Practical, Emotional, Spiritual and Social needs of a serious illness A 501 (c)(3) non-profit organization A Program of Home Hospice of Grayson County 903-868-9315 14 www.HomeHospice.org TEXOMA AREA Living Well Magazine | NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2018 Call us to help you with what matters most! 903-820-9753