Hopefully , the following suggestions will make your move and transition go as smoothly as possible with minimal hiccups . I ’ m speaking from past experience but also from my recent move . It is amazing to me we never stop learning from major changes like “ moving ” in our lives . Here are a few things I ’ ve learned and would suggest :
First , if you are using a moving company be sure to get three or four quotes from several . Ask friends and co-workers who they have used or recommend .
Second and most important , begin packing as far enough in advance as you can possibly tolerate and still function normally in your present home . Most of the “ stuff ” we think we need , we don ’ t use . This is also a great opportunity to begin cleaning out . When you begin taking on one area at a time , packing one box at a time , there is a sense of reward and you feel emotionally energized by the progress of even one box !
Third , get plenty of help from family and friends . Schedule out days and time frames a friend or family member can come and help you . It ’ s helpful to have in mind what you would like for them to pack . But be flexible because some people are more comfortable and better at packing up a kitchen as opposed to a closet . You can never get too much help , but remember to have designated areas you want help packing . This way your time and their time is utilized .
Fourth , take time out to rest . This is extremely important when packing and moving . Remember you may not be able to do as many things as you had been doing socially because you need the time to pack and rest . Remove temporarily those things that are not absolutely necessary . Those things that bring rest , emotional , physical and spiritual support continue as needed .
I hope you find these basic suggestions helpful . Enjoy the change as much as possible and have a happy , safe landing in the new place !
is in private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas providing counseling for children , adolescents , adults , and marriage and family . She is also an author of two books and a public speaker . Georgia may be reached at 469-855-0256 or via email gpsmith7 @ aol . com . www . counselingbygeorgia . com .
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